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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 219920" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>Klmno: What I think is some people write and speak in a style that intentionaly or unintentionally has "hooks" and "bait" that stick ,whenever they do, in sore spots</p><p>in readers ears. Sensitive readers may begin to feel like a pin cushion with nicks and pokes all over their emotional body.</p><p> In my life not fighting is more what I need to learn. I know people who are negative and baiters and always seeking out oppertunity to get the heat up in reactive emotions in others. Liking to hurt people, or at least being willing to watch and do nothing has been a lifeskill, really for humans and especially women. Otherwise I do not think as a demographic the 30% lower pay rate would continue.</p><p> In the ancient befor times responses to a letter or a card range from a </p><p>postcard, thank you, to a mini-novel.</p><p> If someone touches me in a sore spot, especially a trigger, then I am respocible for weither and how I continue.</p><p> What is the purpose for me of having this persons opinion? What do I want to discuss? Is it important to me when someone has an opinion that I find hurtfull or insensitive to clarify what is true for me? Does it matter if a person seems to not even have a clue?</p><p> Friendship I read somewhere is found where one accepts another person and shares where they find common ground.</p><p> It is ok to be healthier than other people. It is ok to have more refined social demeanor than other people. It is ok to be a just plain kinder, more thoughtful and caring person.</p><p> I like to wait when I am angery or angered by words. When I am reactive emotionally I am not the same as when I have perspective and can be responsive and not reactive.</p><p> Maybe if your responce were to ask about your freinds life and interests the change of subject will help you to remember the things this person has that enrich your world.</p><p> In my mind if defending myself is engaged I am already in an abuse type verbal exchange. </p><p> If I leave anything as a trace in the human experiance of life may it be the many lives I do touch with what may be new behavor for them. A presence that demonstrates direct honest and kindly what is wanted and when the action adds to the joy of life.</p><p> I have had relationships where someone is using the e-mail to vent directly when in person the endulgence is not pursued. And I am not myself convinenced that some people read and learn from reading as well as they </p><p>can develope and opinion and an emotional state from which they endulge their mind (wastefully in my view) to their worst thinking process.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 219920, member: 6271"] Klmno: What I think is some people write and speak in a style that intentionaly or unintentionally has "hooks" and "bait" that stick ,whenever they do, in sore spots in readers ears. Sensitive readers may begin to feel like a pin cushion with nicks and pokes all over their emotional body. In my life not fighting is more what I need to learn. I know people who are negative and baiters and always seeking out oppertunity to get the heat up in reactive emotions in others. Liking to hurt people, or at least being willing to watch and do nothing has been a lifeskill, really for humans and especially women. Otherwise I do not think as a demographic the 30% lower pay rate would continue. In the ancient befor times responses to a letter or a card range from a postcard, thank you, to a mini-novel. If someone touches me in a sore spot, especially a trigger, then I am respocible for weither and how I continue. What is the purpose for me of having this persons opinion? What do I want to discuss? Is it important to me when someone has an opinion that I find hurtfull or insensitive to clarify what is true for me? Does it matter if a person seems to not even have a clue? Friendship I read somewhere is found where one accepts another person and shares where they find common ground. It is ok to be healthier than other people. It is ok to have more refined social demeanor than other people. It is ok to be a just plain kinder, more thoughtful and caring person. I like to wait when I am angery or angered by words. When I am reactive emotionally I am not the same as when I have perspective and can be responsive and not reactive. Maybe if your responce were to ask about your freinds life and interests the change of subject will help you to remember the things this person has that enrich your world. In my mind if defending myself is engaged I am already in an abuse type verbal exchange. If I leave anything as a trace in the human experiance of life may it be the many lives I do touch with what may be new behavor for them. A presence that demonstrates direct honest and kindly what is wanted and when the action adds to the joy of life. I have had relationships where someone is using the e-mail to vent directly when in person the endulgence is not pursued. And I am not myself convinenced that some people read and learn from reading as well as they can develope and opinion and an emotional state from which they endulge their mind (wastefully in my view) to their worst thinking process. [/QUOTE]
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