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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 638926" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>dstc_99, I like you very much. I would never put you on ignore. There are people who have hurt me and I don't want to be hurt so I don't let them come on my screen. That's similar to not allowing somebody to post on my FB...lol.</p><p></p><p>I had a tough love approach thrown at me and I didn't like it at first, but I discovered it was best for me to do it. It took years. Told ya about the therapy group I never went to again, but it stuck in my mind. I am going to back off the newbies because I only know what I have been told in therapy and what has worked for me and maybe for a newbie it is too hard to hear. I truly do not believe anyone should be in an abusive relationship should not allow it in their home. And in my opinion, that includes your adult children. You were not in that situation of being in any danger. Your daughter did not hurt you...some of the newbies are in danger. But maybe it's best not to point that out or to tell them that they are important too and that they matter. Maybe they are not ready to hear that. I have no idea.</p><p></p><p>I am going to still post with the people I've already posted to and to newbies once they have gotten advice, if they seem open to the only kind of advice I know how to give, which is to take care of yourself. A post like this, not your original post, but the ones that followed made me timid about posting to newbies, at least for now <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>You take care. You are a good person. Anyone I have on ignore was there on and off before this post so it didn't cause any change. I have learned to do what I have to do to protect myself. in my opinion we are all important and should take care of ourselves as well as our beloved family members <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 638926, member: 1550"] dstc_99, I like you very much. I would never put you on ignore. There are people who have hurt me and I don't want to be hurt so I don't let them come on my screen. That's similar to not allowing somebody to post on my FB...lol. I had a tough love approach thrown at me and I didn't like it at first, but I discovered it was best for me to do it. It took years. Told ya about the therapy group I never went to again, but it stuck in my mind. I am going to back off the newbies because I only know what I have been told in therapy and what has worked for me and maybe for a newbie it is too hard to hear. I truly do not believe anyone should be in an abusive relationship should not allow it in their home. And in my opinion, that includes your adult children. You were not in that situation of being in any danger. Your daughter did not hurt you...some of the newbies are in danger. But maybe it's best not to point that out or to tell them that they are important too and that they matter. Maybe they are not ready to hear that. I have no idea. I am going to still post with the people I've already posted to and to newbies once they have gotten advice, if they seem open to the only kind of advice I know how to give, which is to take care of yourself. A post like this, not your original post, but the ones that followed made me timid about posting to newbies, at least for now :) You take care. You are a good person. Anyone I have on ignore was there on and off before this post so it didn't cause any change. I have learned to do what I have to do to protect myself. in my opinion we are all important and should take care of ourselves as well as our beloved family members :) [/QUOTE]
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