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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 656524" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>How on earth were you a bad daughter? Did you lock your mother in the closet when you were five years old? Tell her she was a F****** biotch when you were eight? Try to kill her? Did you not make Cheerleaders which shamed her? Or did you do everything right, but it still wasn't good enough for her?</p><p></p><p>Let me guess. You didn't always please her, because pleasing her was hard to impossible. You did not always have a perfectly clean room. You didn't get straight A's. You didn't get dinner done in time for her when she staggered in from work. You did not do what she wanted you to do in life? You made your own decisions?</p><p></p><p>I always like to hear how we are "bad daughters." What is a good daughter?</p><p></p><p>I don't think I was a bad daughter. I was a child who had some disabilities and got upset when called bad names and defiant when told I was bad and selfish, which wasn't even true. She was the adult. I was the kid. The dynamic continued in adulthood though and I feel my mother always tried to sabatage me in our tiny family and just because I did not always obey her wishes, I do not feel that made me a bad daughter. Am I on the right track?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 656524, member: 1550"] How on earth were you a bad daughter? Did you lock your mother in the closet when you were five years old? Tell her she was a F****** biotch when you were eight? Try to kill her? Did you not make Cheerleaders which shamed her? Or did you do everything right, but it still wasn't good enough for her? Let me guess. You didn't always please her, because pleasing her was hard to impossible. You did not always have a perfectly clean room. You didn't get straight A's. You didn't get dinner done in time for her when she staggered in from work. You did not do what she wanted you to do in life? You made your own decisions? I always like to hear how we are "bad daughters." What is a good daughter? I don't think I was a bad daughter. I was a child who had some disabilities and got upset when called bad names and defiant when told I was bad and selfish, which wasn't even true. She was the adult. I was the kid. The dynamic continued in adulthood though and I feel my mother always tried to sabatage me in our tiny family and just because I did not always obey her wishes, I do not feel that made me a bad daughter. Am I on the right track? [/QUOTE]
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