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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 656908" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>OMG, Cedar</p><p></p><p></p><p>My mom wasn't jealous of me. She believed I was bad to the bone and the longer she lived the more she thought so. BUT...what shocks me here is that my mother hated my husband too. She did not come to our wedding, although I didn't care or even want her there. Why did she hate a man she didn't know? Well, she had called Bart one day to try to get his social security number from him (in secret of course). I think I told you the story of how my grandmother wanted to give money from her estate to my biological son but not my two adopted kids and I told her I would not be a party to that so she got my mom to do it. Apparently it cost E. some money to do this...taxes whatever. So she wanted to transfer this to Bart, but we wouldn't give her his SSN so that she could do this divisive and evil act. So she called sixteen year old Bart and he said he didn't know his SSN, which was true.</p><p></p><p>Bart came downstairs, looking puzzled, and said, "Hey,l Grandma called me to ask for my SSN and I didn't have it so she called me a liar." He was puzzled because we never called names. Nobody called him "liar." Plus he didn't even know her. I was really fu rious that The Disappearing Mother called my son, a grandchild she totally ignored most of his life, and told my husband to call her and please ask her to never call Bart again. Was I wrong? Hey, by then I had learned to protect myself from E. and I knew my husband would take up for me. He did. To the end of her days, she vilified him. Her only conversation with him ever was this one and it must have killed her that he would protect us from her. So she hated him. And that's why. How dare anybody take up for me and my son against her!!! He had no right to talk to her that way, blah, blah, blah.</p><p></p><p>Like she had a right to call my son and call him a liar. Such double standards!</p><p></p><p>Ok, now going to finish reading your post. I am sorry you went through the same thing as I did.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 656908, member: 1550"] OMG, Cedar My mom wasn't jealous of me. She believed I was bad to the bone and the longer she lived the more she thought so. BUT...what shocks me here is that my mother hated my husband too. She did not come to our wedding, although I didn't care or even want her there. Why did she hate a man she didn't know? Well, she had called Bart one day to try to get his social security number from him (in secret of course). I think I told you the story of how my grandmother wanted to give money from her estate to my biological son but not my two adopted kids and I told her I would not be a party to that so she got my mom to do it. Apparently it cost E. some money to do this...taxes whatever. So she wanted to transfer this to Bart, but we wouldn't give her his SSN so that she could do this divisive and evil act. So she called sixteen year old Bart and he said he didn't know his SSN, which was true. Bart came downstairs, looking puzzled, and said, "Hey,l Grandma called me to ask for my SSN and I didn't have it so she called me a liar." He was puzzled because we never called names. Nobody called him "liar." Plus he didn't even know her. I was really fu rious that The Disappearing Mother called my son, a grandchild she totally ignored most of his life, and told my husband to call her and please ask her to never call Bart again. Was I wrong? Hey, by then I had learned to protect myself from E. and I knew my husband would take up for me. He did. To the end of her days, she vilified him. Her only conversation with him ever was this one and it must have killed her that he would protect us from her. So she hated him. And that's why. How dare anybody take up for me and my son against her!!! He had no right to talk to her that way, blah, blah, blah. Like she had a right to call my son and call him a liar. Such double standards! Ok, now going to finish reading your post. I am sorry you went through the same thing as I did. [/QUOTE]
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