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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 128814" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>I am certain I don't know all the history here.</p><p> </p><p>My difficult child 1's bio mom was much like Brett. difficult child 1 is 19 now, and bio still doesn't have a drivers license (she lost it when he was tiny). She's a felon, been incarcerated, had her other kids removed from her repeatedly, was an alcoholic in various stages of sobriety (or not). However, the court did not consider that enough to remove her from the picture, as I'm assuming is the case with you and yours.</p><p> </p><p>In that sense, however, the best thing we could do for the limited amount of time biomom actually tried to be in difficult child 1's life was to not alienate difficult child. That person, with all their flaws, was his mother, and he loved her, tho it was twisted. To berate her to him and keep him from things such as siblings birthdays would have simply made him angrier at us. Luckily for us, her interest in him was very short lived and she disappeared on her own.</p><p> </p><p>However, I'd encourage you to do the same. Grit your teeth, smile, and let your difficult child go to the birthday party. Send an email simply stating that the parenting plan was violated AGAIN and keep a log.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 128814, member: 1848"] I am certain I don't know all the history here. My difficult child 1's bio mom was much like Brett. difficult child 1 is 19 now, and bio still doesn't have a drivers license (she lost it when he was tiny). She's a felon, been incarcerated, had her other kids removed from her repeatedly, was an alcoholic in various stages of sobriety (or not). However, the court did not consider that enough to remove her from the picture, as I'm assuming is the case with you and yours. In that sense, however, the best thing we could do for the limited amount of time biomom actually tried to be in difficult child 1's life was to not alienate difficult child. That person, with all their flaws, was his mother, and he loved her, tho it was twisted. To berate her to him and keep him from things such as siblings birthdays would have simply made him angrier at us. Luckily for us, her interest in him was very short lived and she disappeared on her own. However, I'd encourage you to do the same. Grit your teeth, smile, and let your difficult child go to the birthday party. Send an email simply stating that the parenting plan was violated AGAIN and keep a log. [/QUOTE]
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