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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 128840" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>I'm sorry that the DA decided to not prosecute because there wasn't enough evidence and I do truly understand your fears. I will say there is no way I would let her be in a car alone with her fathr for even 5 minutes. Any visitation would be with me taking and picking her up. Is there any way you can at least insist that he not be allowed to ever be alone with her, even if the supervision is whatever girl friend he has at that time?</p><p> </p><p>I would have let her go to the birthday party. You knew it was going to happen even if you didn't know the exact day and time. I would have insisted that I take her and pick her up that she come back immediately after the party ended. </p><p> </p><p>This is one of those situations where you and her mother lose. She's going to remember that it was said she could go to the party (even if the response was something as innocuous as "we'll see," she'll take it as a yes) and then wasn't allowed to go by you. She doesn't understand custody agreements and the like. I'm guessing she doesn't yet know her sisters accused their father of abusing them. She knows she loves her father and nothing else matters at this time. She won't understand the issues and fears for a long, long time. </p><p> </p><p>You are truly in a tough spot. As hard as it is, it is up to your SO and her ex to work out the custody issues. If you get in the middle, you're never going to have a chance at a relationship with this girl. It is just going to make things harder for all of you in the long run.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 128840, member: 3626"] I'm sorry that the DA decided to not prosecute because there wasn't enough evidence and I do truly understand your fears. I will say there is no way I would let her be in a car alone with her fathr for even 5 minutes. Any visitation would be with me taking and picking her up. Is there any way you can at least insist that he not be allowed to ever be alone with her, even if the supervision is whatever girl friend he has at that time? I would have let her go to the birthday party. You knew it was going to happen even if you didn't know the exact day and time. I would have insisted that I take her and pick her up that she come back immediately after the party ended. This is one of those situations where you and her mother lose. She's going to remember that it was said she could go to the party (even if the response was something as innocuous as "we'll see," she'll take it as a yes) and then wasn't allowed to go by you. She doesn't understand custody agreements and the like. I'm guessing she doesn't yet know her sisters accused their father of abusing them. She knows she loves her father and nothing else matters at this time. She won't understand the issues and fears for a long, long time. You are truly in a tough spot. As hard as it is, it is up to your SO and her ex to work out the custody issues. If you get in the middle, you're never going to have a chance at a relationship with this girl. It is just going to make things harder for all of you in the long run. [/QUOTE]
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