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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 129795" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>in my opinion, your SO is remiss as a parent by allowing her ex to have any access to these kids. Court or not, I'd fight to keep this dangerous man away from the difficult child. To me, this is WAY more important than the rules of visitation. I think it's alarming that SO even ALLOWS visitation. I'd consider crossing state lines to keep this man out of all the kids lives. Not everyone who has been sexually abused turns a blind eye to it with their own children. I know a lot of women who had this issue and I work at a home for domestically abused women and their kids. I have to wonder about your SO. It's not about whose the bad guy. It's about HIM and getting him away from the kids. </p><p>in my opinion although I understand why daughter would put a picture of her molester dad on her door as a target, I would NOT allow it. She is probably furious at him and should go to therapy to talk about it, but NOT think about shooting him. </p><p>in my opinion, this is a mess. I'm sorry you've involved in it--it's amazing you don't walk away. Since SO isn't willing to face the facts, nothing will get fixed. Sorry, I have no tolerance for knowingly allowing kids to be around child molesters. They do NOT change, and they are very sneaky about when/how/where they abuse. Your SO needs a lot of help. I hope she realizes this. She's not a kid and it's time for her to grow up and protect her children. Your SO is hardly protecting her daughter from all things bad. She's sending her to it. JMO</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 129795, member: 1550"] in my opinion, your SO is remiss as a parent by allowing her ex to have any access to these kids. Court or not, I'd fight to keep this dangerous man away from the difficult child. To me, this is WAY more important than the rules of visitation. I think it's alarming that SO even ALLOWS visitation. I'd consider crossing state lines to keep this man out of all the kids lives. Not everyone who has been sexually abused turns a blind eye to it with their own children. I know a lot of women who had this issue and I work at a home for domestically abused women and their kids. I have to wonder about your SO. It's not about whose the bad guy. It's about HIM and getting him away from the kids. in my opinion although I understand why daughter would put a picture of her molester dad on her door as a target, I would NOT allow it. She is probably furious at him and should go to therapy to talk about it, but NOT think about shooting him. in my opinion, this is a mess. I'm sorry you've involved in it--it's amazing you don't walk away. Since SO isn't willing to face the facts, nothing will get fixed. Sorry, I have no tolerance for knowingly allowing kids to be around child molesters. They do NOT change, and they are very sneaky about when/how/where they abuse. Your SO needs a lot of help. I hope she realizes this. She's not a kid and it's time for her to grow up and protect her children. Your SO is hardly protecting her daughter from all things bad. She's sending her to it. JMO [/QUOTE]
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