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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 129813" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p></p><p>sounds like you have your hands full and are a really good person and must love them all very much to be on this site looking for help and support.</p><p></p><p>i'm sorry i'm so late to this but it confused me intially wanted to see where it was going first.</p><p></p><p>i'd have to agree with marg as far as starting some type of relationship with difficult child so that she isnt' as tempted to go with abusive/molestor dad. its typical of children when abused want to be with their abuser. sort of like a dog excuse the reference made but you kick them and they come back tail between their legs. i speak from experience on this one. if you two can begin some type of bonding and concentrate on that for now that may solve the dilemna of difficult child wanting to go. you have alot more power than you realize in the situation.</p><p></p><p>as far as this guy is concerned. i know me as a mom and i wouldn't let difficult child go at all. i don't care if she hated me for the rest of her life and kicked and screamed bottom line kid wouldn't go.</p><p></p><p>also so that you know that no one here is judging you. it's a sensitive subject so your going to get very emotion filled responses. </p><p></p><p>maybe you two could sit down quietly with-o any kids surrounding and discuss a plan on how to keep her (difficult child) from going with good old dad. </p><p></p><p>it is hands down a difficult situation, it is also very hard as a parent regardless of anything else to realize the person in which you had a child with sexually molested your child. yet i think regardless of what the da did or did not do at this point it is imperative that this difficult child be kept from this man at all costs. it will only bring her more pain and hurt and truly change the woman she will become someday.</p><p></p><p>good luck to you and i mean that it is one rough rough situation.</p><p></p><p>keep us posted though let us know how it's going if you've had any progress.</p><p></p><p>Jen <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 129813, member: 4514"] hi sounds like you have your hands full and are a really good person and must love them all very much to be on this site looking for help and support. i'm sorry i'm so late to this but it confused me intially wanted to see where it was going first. i'd have to agree with marg as far as starting some type of relationship with difficult child so that she isnt' as tempted to go with abusive/molestor dad. its typical of children when abused want to be with their abuser. sort of like a dog excuse the reference made but you kick them and they come back tail between their legs. i speak from experience on this one. if you two can begin some type of bonding and concentrate on that for now that may solve the dilemna of difficult child wanting to go. you have alot more power than you realize in the situation. as far as this guy is concerned. i know me as a mom and i wouldn't let difficult child go at all. i don't care if she hated me for the rest of her life and kicked and screamed bottom line kid wouldn't go. also so that you know that no one here is judging you. it's a sensitive subject so your going to get very emotion filled responses. maybe you two could sit down quietly with-o any kids surrounding and discuss a plan on how to keep her (difficult child) from going with good old dad. it is hands down a difficult situation, it is also very hard as a parent regardless of anything else to realize the person in which you had a child with sexually molested your child. yet i think regardless of what the da did or did not do at this point it is imperative that this difficult child be kept from this man at all costs. it will only bring her more pain and hurt and truly change the woman she will become someday. good luck to you and i mean that it is one rough rough situation. keep us posted though let us know how it's going if you've had any progress. Jen :) [/QUOTE]
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