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<blockquote data-quote="flutterbee" data-source="post: 129858"><p>If the courts say that the father is allowed visitation, there isn't much the mother can do. I think saying that mom is sending the child into harm as if she's deliberately not protecting the child is rather harsh.</p><p></p><p>A story about a former co-worker of mine. Her son-in-law was charged with raping his 16 year old niece. He said it was consensual. While the charges were pending and court dates were scheduled, he was allowed supervised visitation with his daughter. Niece changed her story and said it was consensual and prosecutor had no further evidence to proceed so the charges were dropped. Even though mom spent well over $30,000 in legal fees, dad's visitation - joint custody, in fact - was reinstated.</p><p></p><p>If mom refuses to allow dad visitation she will be charged with contempt of court and could risk losing her daughter permanently to this man.</p><p></p><p>It's a no win situation. </p><p></p><p>Bottom line is that this man is difficult child's father and she loves him. However, kids are not stupid and she will see him for who he is. Further, he showed little interest in difficult child before his current love-interest. Probably, he will lose interest again. Right now, he's all about winning. Once he thinks he's won, he'll grow bored of it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterbee, post: 129858"] If the courts say that the father is allowed visitation, there isn't much the mother can do. I think saying that mom is sending the child into harm as if she's deliberately not protecting the child is rather harsh. A story about a former co-worker of mine. Her son-in-law was charged with raping his 16 year old niece. He said it was consensual. While the charges were pending and court dates were scheduled, he was allowed supervised visitation with his daughter. Niece changed her story and said it was consensual and prosecutor had no further evidence to proceed so the charges were dropped. Even though mom spent well over $30,000 in legal fees, dad's visitation - joint custody, in fact - was reinstated. If mom refuses to allow dad visitation she will be charged with contempt of court and could risk losing her daughter permanently to this man. It's a no win situation. Bottom line is that this man is difficult child's father and she loves him. However, kids are not stupid and she will see him for who he is. Further, he showed little interest in difficult child before his current love-interest. Probably, he will lose interest again. Right now, he's all about winning. Once he thinks he's won, he'll grow bored of it. [/QUOTE]
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