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<blockquote data-quote="SaraT" data-source="post: 129931" data-attributes="member: 2270"><p>Custody and visitation is a sticky issue because of court orders. been there done that. If you believe difficult child is in danger due to Brett's drinking(ie he shows up to get her drunk), then you can refuse that visitation, and write a letter to the court explaining he was drunk and you feared for difficult child's safety. Unfortunately you cannot keep difficult child from him on the allegations.(I know it stinks). </p><p> </p><p>If Brett violates any court rule regarding visitation, document it. Keep very detailed records of when and how he violated the order. When you have enough to prove a pattern, go back to court to modify or repeal his visitation. In the mean time you and SO need to follow the order exactly and be the "bigger" people. A little flexibility will go a long way to showing a judge who is the real stinker in this situation. in my humble opinion.(ie give him enough rope to "hang himself".)</p><p> </p><p>I agree with the others to get all members of the family into counsiling to deal with the abuse. The best "revenge" is to not let him or his actions get the best of any member of the family.(I know that is easier said then done)</p><p> </p><p>I am sorry you are going through this, but admire the fact that you are trying to help SO and her girls. Very good job!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SaraT, post: 129931, member: 2270"] Custody and visitation is a sticky issue because of court orders. been there done that. If you believe difficult child is in danger due to Brett's drinking(ie he shows up to get her drunk), then you can refuse that visitation, and write a letter to the court explaining he was drunk and you feared for difficult child's safety. Unfortunately you cannot keep difficult child from him on the allegations.(I know it stinks). If Brett violates any court rule regarding visitation, document it. Keep very detailed records of when and how he violated the order. When you have enough to prove a pattern, go back to court to modify or repeal his visitation. In the mean time you and SO need to follow the order exactly and be the "bigger" people. A little flexibility will go a long way to showing a judge who is the real stinker in this situation. in my humble opinion.(ie give him enough rope to "hang himself".) I agree with the others to get all members of the family into counsiling to deal with the abuse. The best "revenge" is to not let him or his actions get the best of any member of the family.(I know that is easier said then done) I am sorry you are going through this, but admire the fact that you are trying to help SO and her girls. Very good job! [/QUOTE]
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