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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 495483" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Hmmm, I think this is probably right. I think it is probably unwise to make a habit of "splitting off" the negative side of a person into another little boy altogether - so that it is not J's responsibility. When he was talking at lunchtime, as Charlie, about some of the naughty things that J did, at one point I started talking to him as J, saying that <strong>he</strong> had done those things. And he got quite upset, insisting that he was Charlie and the naughty things were nothing to do with him. As in general he has a problem with accepting blame and responsibility, I think... it's perhaps something best left alone, as you say.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 495483, member: 11227"] Hmmm, I think this is probably right. I think it is probably unwise to make a habit of "splitting off" the negative side of a person into another little boy altogether - so that it is not J's responsibility. When he was talking at lunchtime, as Charlie, about some of the naughty things that J did, at one point I started talking to him as J, saying that [B]he[/B] had done those things. And he got quite upset, insisting that he was Charlie and the naughty things were nothing to do with him. As in general he has a problem with accepting blame and responsibility, I think... it's perhaps something best left alone, as you say. [/QUOTE]
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