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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 534143" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Really? And on what planet does this happen?</p><p></p><p>Back when easy child and Travis were babies, husband and I split due to something that was not between us personally.....(I won't go into details) Due to that, and husband understood why I thought it important to leave the marriage at that time, we had the most friendly divorce the county had ever known, possibly the entire state. husband <strong>did</strong> pay for everything. He even paid me alimony because I'd been a stay at home Mom. He even tried to give me all the household furnishings since I'd have the kids. BUT I refused to accept the alimony unless it was temporary. (we agreed a year was long enough for me to find work), I refused to take any furnishings that were his before I entered the relationship (which was most of it), AND I refused to allow the state or my lawyer take him to the cleaners with child support. </p><p></p><p>husband and I arrived at court hearings together in the same car. It literally blew people away. </p><p></p><p>So, she cheated on her husband, but she still thinks he should continue to treat her as if basically he's married to her..........she just gets a piece of paper that makes it ok to cheat............ Brilliant. She's in for a rude awakening. LOL</p><p></p><p>I dunno about the keeping kids to a certain area. It sure didn't work with husband. That was the only thing we argued about. But then I was already in Illinois by that time. Court sided with me. I let husband camp out on my couch on weekends he visited the kids so he didn't have to pay hotel fees ontop of the gas to drive 2 states to see them. </p><p></p><p>easy child and her husband are on the brink of a divorce as we speak. She's still fighting to make it work. But if he doesn't get his temper under control............ And while I love him like a son, I really don't see that happening because he refuses to believe it's a real issue. (when it's an in your face issue) I'm hoping, praying they can work it out. They love each other more than either of them realize. And if it doesn't work out, it better be somewhat friendly divorce because sister in law has been in the family for so long and from such a young age......he's a member of this family married or not.</p><p></p><p>(((hugs))) Its so hard to see your kids going through such things.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 534143, member: 84"] Really? And on what planet does this happen? Back when easy child and Travis were babies, husband and I split due to something that was not between us personally.....(I won't go into details) Due to that, and husband understood why I thought it important to leave the marriage at that time, we had the most friendly divorce the county had ever known, possibly the entire state. husband [B]did[/B] pay for everything. He even paid me alimony because I'd been a stay at home Mom. He even tried to give me all the household furnishings since I'd have the kids. BUT I refused to accept the alimony unless it was temporary. (we agreed a year was long enough for me to find work), I refused to take any furnishings that were his before I entered the relationship (which was most of it), AND I refused to allow the state or my lawyer take him to the cleaners with child support. husband and I arrived at court hearings together in the same car. It literally blew people away. So, she cheated on her husband, but she still thinks he should continue to treat her as if basically he's married to her..........she just gets a piece of paper that makes it ok to cheat............ Brilliant. She's in for a rude awakening. LOL I dunno about the keeping kids to a certain area. It sure didn't work with husband. That was the only thing we argued about. But then I was already in Illinois by that time. Court sided with me. I let husband camp out on my couch on weekends he visited the kids so he didn't have to pay hotel fees ontop of the gas to drive 2 states to see them. easy child and her husband are on the brink of a divorce as we speak. She's still fighting to make it work. But if he doesn't get his temper under control............ And while I love him like a son, I really don't see that happening because he refuses to believe it's a real issue. (when it's an in your face issue) I'm hoping, praying they can work it out. They love each other more than either of them realize. And if it doesn't work out, it better be somewhat friendly divorce because sister in law has been in the family for so long and from such a young age......he's a member of this family married or not. (((hugs))) Its so hard to see your kids going through such things. [/QUOTE]
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