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Just cant understand the reasoning, our difficult child is spinning out of control.
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<blockquote data-quote="cw_mi" data-source="post: 576946" data-attributes="member: 15803"><p>Yes, she is 18 but still a junior in HS so for her to be pulling this stuff it is going to greatly effect her life. And I apologize for painting anyone with Mental health issues with such a broad brush. Our concern with B is the fact that he has violent tendencies (was told this by his legal guardian) and it showed up in their chats. (he would talk fondly of tying someone up and whipping them because they angered him and not in the BDSM context) So again I apologize if I offended anyone. </p><p> I would be lying if I said we absolutely can't stand B and would want nothing more than him out of her life, and ours. But we did try to focus on J's habitual lying and sneaking around. And this was ultimately what got us to the point we are at now. I'm sure J could sense there was more to it than that and that is quite possibly why she made the choice that she did. And yes she always did have some issues, most of which we blamed on her dad. If all three of us would have been on board we could have gotten J some help before it turned out the way it did. It's hard to move forward though when her dad basically un did everthing we tried, just as B is doing now. Before she met B we saw a spark, we thought she was changing and growing... then it all fell apart. </p><p> I know at this time neither M or myself would want her back in our lives, we miss her and worry about her future and if ever the time comes where she wants to be a part of our lives we will have to see some major changes. It is what it is for now, and M and I will move on and we have a few major vacations planned for this year.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="cw_mi, post: 576946, member: 15803"] Yes, she is 18 but still a junior in HS so for her to be pulling this stuff it is going to greatly effect her life. And I apologize for painting anyone with Mental health issues with such a broad brush. Our concern with B is the fact that he has violent tendencies (was told this by his legal guardian) and it showed up in their chats. (he would talk fondly of tying someone up and whipping them because they angered him and not in the BDSM context) So again I apologize if I offended anyone. I would be lying if I said we absolutely can't stand B and would want nothing more than him out of her life, and ours. But we did try to focus on J's habitual lying and sneaking around. And this was ultimately what got us to the point we are at now. I'm sure J could sense there was more to it than that and that is quite possibly why she made the choice that she did. And yes she always did have some issues, most of which we blamed on her dad. If all three of us would have been on board we could have gotten J some help before it turned out the way it did. It's hard to move forward though when her dad basically un did everthing we tried, just as B is doing now. Before she met B we saw a spark, we thought she was changing and growing... then it all fell apart. I know at this time neither M or myself would want her back in our lives, we miss her and worry about her future and if ever the time comes where she wants to be a part of our lives we will have to see some major changes. It is what it is for now, and M and I will move on and we have a few major vacations planned for this year. [/QUOTE]
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