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Just cant understand the reasoning, our difficult child is spinning out of control.
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<blockquote data-quote="cw_mi" data-source="post: 584165" data-attributes="member: 15803"><p>Thanks and it seems like an endless saga for sure. I am going to bring up the subject of talking with someone to my wife. I think it will help her and even myself. Im catching myself becoming bitter and angry towards our difficult child. My wife made a comment about hopefully someday things will be better and she could visit us for a weekend and my immediate response was And Ill make sure Im gone that weekend ! That did nothing but upset my wife. As much as Ive got my fingers crossed that bio dad and difficult child will be out of our lives after she turns 19 ½ Im sure that isnt going to be the case and we both need to be prepared for it. </p><p> I work in a design/engineering field so I by nature think constantly with logic. That is my hang up, Im trying to apply logic to this and it just isnt working and Its driving me nuts. It just seems so easy to figure out. Family is good/ bio dad and fiancé is bad , positivity is good /negativity is bad Simple ! But difficult child does the exact opposite. I will say Im surprised that difficult child does talk with my wife on occasion , she has shown no desire to visit though. Another thing I just dont get is now that we and the rest of the family have detached from bio dad , difficult child and fiancé you would think that they would all be happy and move on with their lives. Instead they still try and create drama just for the sake of it and keep trying to drag us back into it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="cw_mi, post: 584165, member: 15803"] Thanks and it seems like an endless saga for sure. I am going to bring up the subject of talking with someone to my wife. I think it will help her and even myself. Im catching myself becoming bitter and angry towards our difficult child. My wife made a comment about hopefully someday things will be better and she could visit us for a weekend and my immediate response was And Ill make sure Im gone that weekend ! That did nothing but upset my wife. As much as Ive got my fingers crossed that bio dad and difficult child will be out of our lives after she turns 19 ½ Im sure that isnt going to be the case and we both need to be prepared for it. I work in a design/engineering field so I by nature think constantly with logic. That is my hang up, Im trying to apply logic to this and it just isnt working and Its driving me nuts. It just seems so easy to figure out. Family is good/ bio dad and fiancé is bad , positivity is good /negativity is bad Simple ! But difficult child does the exact opposite. I will say Im surprised that difficult child does talk with my wife on occasion , she has shown no desire to visit though. Another thing I just dont get is now that we and the rest of the family have detached from bio dad , difficult child and fiancé you would think that they would all be happy and move on with their lives. Instead they still try and create drama just for the sake of it and keep trying to drag us back into it. [/QUOTE]
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