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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 538482"><p>Lisa said it far better than I. Now I wish I could've gotten difficult child to understand that my house = my benefit/comfort level comes first, but that had nothing to do with sleepovers.</p><p></p><p>Both difficult child (20) & pc18 have l/t gfs with whom they are presumably having sex. Not in my house! Of course, we've felt the need to make sure the boys have access to ample protection. And we struggled with how to do so without implying I would happily be making the gfs pancakes in the morning. So, h provides them, restocks them under the sink with a firm "don't let your mom know I gave you these..." and I play dumb. I like to say (to my friends) that the condom fairy has replaced the tooth fairy in our home.</p><p></p><p>One girlfriend has stayed over in the guest room on occasion.</p><p></p><p>It's partially bc I am not comfortable around it w my younger son. Also, bc I don't want a revolving door of different partners thru my home. And the idea of it is just so inappropriate! And if anyone is having sex in my house, I want it to be me!! And having my kid with a girl in his bed a few doors away would be a total buzz kill-Know what I mean??</p><p></p><p>Lol</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 538482"] Lisa said it far better than I. Now I wish I could've gotten difficult child to understand that my house = my benefit/comfort level comes first, but that had nothing to do with sleepovers. Both difficult child (20) & pc18 have l/t gfs with whom they are presumably having sex. Not in my house! Of course, we've felt the need to make sure the boys have access to ample protection. And we struggled with how to do so without implying I would happily be making the gfs pancakes in the morning. So, h provides them, restocks them under the sink with a firm "don't let your mom know I gave you these..." and I play dumb. I like to say (to my friends) that the condom fairy has replaced the tooth fairy in our home. One girlfriend has stayed over in the guest room on occasion. It's partially bc I am not comfortable around it w my younger son. Also, bc I don't want a revolving door of different partners thru my home. And the idea of it is just so inappropriate! And if anyone is having sex in my house, I want it to be me!! And having my kid with a girl in his bed a few doors away would be a total buzz kill-Know what I mean?? Lol [/QUOTE]
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