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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 538708" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>It depends on the ages and responsibilty for me. Teens in high school NO - and I actually had a big problem with this with my son - never my daughter.</p><p></p><p>My difficult child son tried several times to move other female difficult children having problems at home into my home. One was a friend's girlfriend and her job for the summer was walking distance from us. Within 2 weeks the boss was at my house because she wasn't going to work and she was getting phone calls and other friends dropping by at all hours. I was leaving for work and they were staying up all night and sleeping all day. That was when I went to PJ and water in the house.</p><p></p><p>After 2 very long weeks I called her mother and told my difficult child son and her that if she wasn't out of my house in one hour I would call the police to get her out. The mother says (I had never met her) 'you mean she is not paying rent' OMG! she is not working HOW is she going to pay rent. </p><p></p><p>Another was a teen mother living close by - she tried to move in about 5 times and I kept saying 'GO HOME'! I wasn't about to support a teen and her child.</p><p></p><p>I was not happy when I would wake up and find a strange male friend on my sofa - and things were dissappearing from my home - we fought over this a lot.</p><p></p><p>My difficult child son would even change my answering machine to something vulgar and personal to him like it was his home and I was visiting!</p><p></p><p>I'm not hung up on the marriage license - marriages don't always last either - but not teens, one night stands, and I will not be supporting them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 538708, member: 13558"] It depends on the ages and responsibilty for me. Teens in high school NO - and I actually had a big problem with this with my son - never my daughter. My difficult child son tried several times to move other female difficult children having problems at home into my home. One was a friend's girlfriend and her job for the summer was walking distance from us. Within 2 weeks the boss was at my house because she wasn't going to work and she was getting phone calls and other friends dropping by at all hours. I was leaving for work and they were staying up all night and sleeping all day. That was when I went to PJ and water in the house. After 2 very long weeks I called her mother and told my difficult child son and her that if she wasn't out of my house in one hour I would call the police to get her out. The mother says (I had never met her) 'you mean she is not paying rent' OMG! she is not working HOW is she going to pay rent. Another was a teen mother living close by - she tried to move in about 5 times and I kept saying 'GO HOME'! I wasn't about to support a teen and her child. I was not happy when I would wake up and find a strange male friend on my sofa - and things were dissappearing from my home - we fought over this a lot. My difficult child son would even change my answering machine to something vulgar and personal to him like it was his home and I was visiting! I'm not hung up on the marriage license - marriages don't always last either - but not teens, one night stands, and I will not be supporting them. [/QUOTE]
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