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Just got a call from my dad... :(
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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 167180" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>My personal philosophy Deb is to expect nothing from anyone. I can only count on/control me. If they help it's absolutely gravy. Different people see their responsibility differently. The less I asked and the more I did, the more the sibs wanted to give help instead of me dragging help out of them. No anger, no judgemnt, no criticism. I do what I want, because I think it is the right thing. They have to do what they think is right. It's never going to be fair. I don't think it's possible or the goal. Give the parts of you that you can. You want to not have regrets. </p><p>I have been fortunate my sibs have given help when and where they could. We have all been grateful to each other.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 167180, member: 3"] My personal philosophy Deb is to expect nothing from anyone. I can only count on/control me. If they help it's absolutely gravy. Different people see their responsibility differently. The less I asked and the more I did, the more the sibs wanted to give help instead of me dragging help out of them. No anger, no judgemnt, no criticism. I do what I want, because I think it is the right thing. They have to do what they think is right. It's never going to be fair. I don't think it's possible or the goal. Give the parts of you that you can. You want to not have regrets. I have been fortunate my sibs have given help when and where they could. We have all been grateful to each other. [/QUOTE]
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