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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 482178" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>in my opinion it hoovers. The entire system is so messed up that a parent who wants to do right by her kid and by her community gets witchslapped from every direction. I don't like this lawyer. he is a jerk. </p><p></p><p>I DO think you have to make nice with PO. otherwise he can and will make your and difficult child's life miserable. </p><p></p><p>Do they have to release difficult child on his 18th birthday no matter what? </p><p></p><p>Get into game playing mindset and take the guy cookies, or chips and salsa (make it look homemade even if you just buy a jar of equate salsa and toss in half a can of corn to make it look less store bought) or whatever and apologize, say you didn't mean to make trouble, just had been dealing with some other stuff and were frustrated. I KNOW it galls to do that, but it is the ONLY way to have a prayer of this guy not making thing even harder for you and difficult child. Just tell yourself that it is a contest to see who can lie the most - and you are GOING to win by being nice to this guy. He is ONLY nice to you to get what he wants, and there is NOTHING wrong with doing the same to him.</p><p></p><p>You know where I think this guy will end up. it is super hot, and he will spend his day dealing being punished by the kids and parents he jerked around while on his power trip. This is part of their reward, and his special Hades.</p><p></p><p>(((((hugs)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 482178, member: 1233"] in my opinion it hoovers. The entire system is so messed up that a parent who wants to do right by her kid and by her community gets witchslapped from every direction. I don't like this lawyer. he is a jerk. I DO think you have to make nice with PO. otherwise he can and will make your and difficult child's life miserable. Do they have to release difficult child on his 18th birthday no matter what? Get into game playing mindset and take the guy cookies, or chips and salsa (make it look homemade even if you just buy a jar of equate salsa and toss in half a can of corn to make it look less store bought) or whatever and apologize, say you didn't mean to make trouble, just had been dealing with some other stuff and were frustrated. I KNOW it galls to do that, but it is the ONLY way to have a prayer of this guy not making thing even harder for you and difficult child. Just tell yourself that it is a contest to see who can lie the most - and you are GOING to win by being nice to this guy. He is ONLY nice to you to get what he wants, and there is NOTHING wrong with doing the same to him. You know where I think this guy will end up. it is super hot, and he will spend his day dealing being punished by the kids and parents he jerked around while on his power trip. This is part of their reward, and his special Hades. (((((hugs))))) [/QUOTE]
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