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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 482235" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Perfect, DJ!</p><p></p><p>I will say that during that meeting, re-entry lady looked at PO a few times like she was waiting to see if he admitted telling me this stuff (which wasn't really what her program was or wasn't what he'd led her to believe or super, etc) and then looking at him like she was quite confused. For instance, super was claiming the group home was set in stone, I said that he'd just told me otherwise the day before. Re-entry lady says "oh, then I need to interview difficult child" I said someone just had and she said that was her but she didn't interview him about group home so she had to go again. I said, "well, then does that mean YOU weren't told that group home was set in stone either"? After the meeting, PO takes me to his office and says it was his super that was not up-to-date on his latest thoughts. OK, that would explain that. Then Tues, he calls tells me something different. </p><p></p><p>If he had just acknowledged that this was a change in what he'd told me last, fine, I might be disappointed but ok. But to start going off on me for 'trying to re-write a parole plan that was cast in stone"- I have a problem with. And when it's referring to a situation where this means my son ages out of this system going to independent living instead of possibly being released to me in a few weeks, that's not a jerk I take lightly. I honestly think his super chewed his butt that Monday for all this misunderstanding and his way of dealing with it then was to call me on Tues and act like a different person.</p><p></p><p>I'm thinking I might tell him that I'd like his super in the room any time we have to have a face to face mtg (every 90 days min) in order to prevent any further misunderstanding. Then, I'll just ignore anything he tells me about anything on required mo phone calls.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 482235, member: 3699"] Perfect, DJ! I will say that during that meeting, re-entry lady looked at PO a few times like she was waiting to see if he admitted telling me this stuff (which wasn't really what her program was or wasn't what he'd led her to believe or super, etc) and then looking at him like she was quite confused. For instance, super was claiming the group home was set in stone, I said that he'd just told me otherwise the day before. Re-entry lady says "oh, then I need to interview difficult child" I said someone just had and she said that was her but she didn't interview him about group home so she had to go again. I said, "well, then does that mean YOU weren't told that group home was set in stone either"? After the meeting, PO takes me to his office and says it was his super that was not up-to-date on his latest thoughts. OK, that would explain that. Then Tues, he calls tells me something different. If he had just acknowledged that this was a change in what he'd told me last, fine, I might be disappointed but ok. But to start going off on me for 'trying to re-write a parole plan that was cast in stone"- I have a problem with. And when it's referring to a situation where this means my son ages out of this system going to independent living instead of possibly being released to me in a few weeks, that's not a jerk I take lightly. I honestly think his super chewed his butt that Monday for all this misunderstanding and his way of dealing with it then was to call me on Tues and act like a different person. I'm thinking I might tell him that I'd like his super in the room any time we have to have a face to face mtg (every 90 days min) in order to prevent any further misunderstanding. Then, I'll just ignore anything he tells me about anything on required mo phone calls. [/QUOTE]
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