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Just got back from difficult child's apartment
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 493631" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Janet I understand and the reason I felt bad when leaving is because of what you just said, that it hurts because you know how badly you messed up. I think difficult child feels that at times and it hurts me.</p><p></p><p>Kathy I agree with you. I can't stand clutter and when I am around it I feel bad and have to either leave or get rid of the clutter, that's why I started cleaning up while I was there. It's very difficult for me to concentrate around clutter or dirt, I end up not being able to think about anything else but that and I don;t feel good about myself.</p><p></p><p>I was glad to see her room was organized and not as messy as the rest of the place. She texted my today and said after I left she cleaned and rearranged her room. I told her I was proud of her and if she emptied the ashtrays at least it would go a long way in making it smell better. She did buy an air freshner spray so I think even she thinks it's bad. But like I said the girl she is living with is a good influence and that goes a long way in my book. husband looked in their fridge and there was no alcohol <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" />.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 493631, member: 59"] Janet I understand and the reason I felt bad when leaving is because of what you just said, that it hurts because you know how badly you messed up. I think difficult child feels that at times and it hurts me. Kathy I agree with you. I can't stand clutter and when I am around it I feel bad and have to either leave or get rid of the clutter, that's why I started cleaning up while I was there. It's very difficult for me to concentrate around clutter or dirt, I end up not being able to think about anything else but that and I don;t feel good about myself. I was glad to see her room was organized and not as messy as the rest of the place. She texted my today and said after I left she cleaned and rearranged her room. I told her I was proud of her and if she emptied the ashtrays at least it would go a long way in making it smell better. She did buy an air freshner spray so I think even she thinks it's bad. But like I said the girl she is living with is a good influence and that goes a long way in my book. husband looked in their fridge and there was no alcohol ;). Nancy [/QUOTE]
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