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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 455384" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>PG I am so sorry you are in such pain right now. DDD is so right. I found myself so heartsick and worried when difficult child would be in crisis mode and prayed for the calm moments even though I knew even the calm moments were still worrisome. It gave me some time to recollect myself and put things into perspective. Our difficult children have no idea what they put everyone around them through because they are so use to the chaos and think it is normal. It's only until after they are removed from the insanity they live in that they realize how crazy it was. I've been where you are at and it's a horrible place to be. You are sick with worry and want to do something, anything to make it better. Sadly difficult child is the only one who can make it better.</p><p></p><p>Just keep telling your difficult child that you are here for when she decides to change her life and that you will support her in that decision, that you love her and worry about her but that you cannot live your life anymore trying to fix her.</p><p></p><p>I'm sending prayers and good thoughts for you to find some peace.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 455384, member: 59"] PG I am so sorry you are in such pain right now. DDD is so right. I found myself so heartsick and worried when difficult child would be in crisis mode and prayed for the calm moments even though I knew even the calm moments were still worrisome. It gave me some time to recollect myself and put things into perspective. Our difficult children have no idea what they put everyone around them through because they are so use to the chaos and think it is normal. It's only until after they are removed from the insanity they live in that they realize how crazy it was. I've been where you are at and it's a horrible place to be. You are sick with worry and want to do something, anything to make it better. Sadly difficult child is the only one who can make it better. Just keep telling your difficult child that you are here for when she decides to change her life and that you will support her in that decision, that you love her and worry about her but that you cannot live your life anymore trying to fix her. I'm sending prayers and good thoughts for you to find some peace. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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