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<blockquote data-quote="overcome mom" data-source="post: 738617" data-attributes="member: 23328"><p>I have been where your at so many times. My son was not looking at 14 years but 4. I can't give you advice but I will tell you what I have done and how it turned out. I have many times bailed him out of traffic tickets, got him attorneys , paid for food , housing etc. This has been going on since he was 15 and he is now 25 and really no change. He is currently in jail again. I have gone against my husbands wishes many times bailing him out because "he finally has a job", he'll lose everything he has if he is locked up, etc. It has not helped. I don't know your son's history but it seems as if he hasn't gotten serious yet. Does he deserve 14 years probably not. How it will turn out just depends on the judge. It is a parole violation -( if he was in prison then he would be on parole and if in jail then could be on probation). Sometimes DWL it is not a criminal violation. <strong>If</strong> his parole officer already knows about it you could call him/her, or of course he could, and ask if it is a violation of parole that would send him back to prison. Might just ease you mind. If he can get a job, go back to school,pay on his fines before his court date that may show them he is really trying to turn things around. As always it is up to him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="overcome mom, post: 738617, member: 23328"] I have been where your at so many times. My son was not looking at 14 years but 4. I can't give you advice but I will tell you what I have done and how it turned out. I have many times bailed him out of traffic tickets, got him attorneys , paid for food , housing etc. This has been going on since he was 15 and he is now 25 and really no change. He is currently in jail again. I have gone against my husbands wishes many times bailing him out because "he finally has a job", he'll lose everything he has if he is locked up, etc. It has not helped. I don't know your son's history but it seems as if he hasn't gotten serious yet. Does he deserve 14 years probably not. How it will turn out just depends on the judge. It is a parole violation -( if he was in prison then he would be on parole and if in jail then could be on probation). Sometimes DWL it is not a criminal violation. [B]If[/B] his parole officer already knows about it you could call him/her, or of course he could, and ask if it is a violation of parole that would send him back to prison. Might just ease you mind. If he can get a job, go back to school,pay on his fines before his court date that may show them he is really trying to turn things around. As always it is up to him. [/QUOTE]
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