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Just rec'd letter from Department of Juvenile Justice
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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 507274" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>NP, DDD. The one good thing about this- if director is going to let a PO do whatever they want, even when it's not complying with the time requirements and so forth written in the state law, then the director probably won't take one look at it if I move out of this area....IOW, if the director ordered detention reentry and they want difficult child to sit in Department of Juvenile Justice until that has been established (it's a pilot program right now but hasn't even gotten off the ground), then that would carry from one state jurisdiction to the next. If they are saying PO can do whatever he wants, then I can move out of this POs jurisdiction and the new PO will have the say so.</p><p></p><p>I do think pushing for a parent signing over custody when a program is not being used as a diversion is way beyond the line of "cooperation" though- and this is where fed laws <em>might</em> start applying. That and keeping a kid incarcerated for these reasons. While numerous types of services were discussed and weighed during the past year, not a single one was ever written as a "plan" except the one requiring me to sign over custody, and that was misrepresented to me.</p><p></p><p>If reunification is never going to be allowed, why not just tell us both the truth so difficult child and I can go from here? I know the reason is so they can dangle a carrot of false hope to "motivate" us (ie, manipulate us- and i say manipulate because that's what it is if they have no intention of ever backing it up) but who on earth could think this is going to work once people figure out that they have no intention of backing it up? What's the kid going to do then?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 507274, member: 3699"] NP, DDD. The one good thing about this- if director is going to let a PO do whatever they want, even when it's not complying with the time requirements and so forth written in the state law, then the director probably won't take one look at it if I move out of this area....IOW, if the director ordered detention reentry and they want difficult child to sit in Department of Juvenile Justice until that has been established (it's a pilot program right now but hasn't even gotten off the ground), then that would carry from one state jurisdiction to the next. If they are saying PO can do whatever he wants, then I can move out of this POs jurisdiction and the new PO will have the say so. I do think pushing for a parent signing over custody when a program is not being used as a diversion is way beyond the line of "cooperation" though- and this is where fed laws [I]might[/I] start applying. That and keeping a kid incarcerated for these reasons. While numerous types of services were discussed and weighed during the past year, not a single one was ever written as a "plan" except the one requiring me to sign over custody, and that was misrepresented to me. If reunification is never going to be allowed, why not just tell us both the truth so difficult child and I can go from here? I know the reason is so they can dangle a carrot of false hope to "motivate" us (ie, manipulate us- and i say manipulate because that's what it is if they have no intention of ever backing it up) but who on earth could think this is going to work once people figure out that they have no intention of backing it up? What's the kid going to do then? [/QUOTE]
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