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<blockquote data-quote="mom_to_3" data-source="post: 239848" data-attributes="member: 30"><p>It does sound like you are getting somewhere and that's good. I do have a question though................. Do you think it's fair to the PO and the school district and the other committee's you are looking at to help you, to not have all of the facts to base their opinions on? Maybe this is why you can't get the help for your son that you think he needs? </p><p></p><p>You are reacting and upset at their lack of "help" but yet, you haven't given everybody the same or even all of the same information to make decisions on. Everyone needs to be on the same page and you have to be consistent. </p><p></p><p>I know you don't trust many/any of these people, but I see it as more of a hindrance for you to not be completely truthful with everyone. No one can give you the help you want/need if you don't give them all the facts they need to make decisions. I don't think the judge, the po, the school district or all the powers that be, are going to consider you reliable and forthright since you didn't lay it all out in the open to begin with. </p><p></p><p>You have to be able to trust them and they also need to trust in what you say. Think about it, no one is going to send a child to an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) just because they are bipolar, are having moods swings, doing minor cutting, won't go to school and because you his mother is overwhelmed. I promise I am not slighting you in the least, just offering my observation in hopes of more help coming your way. Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom_to_3, post: 239848, member: 30"] It does sound like you are getting somewhere and that's good. I do have a question though................. Do you think it's fair to the PO and the school district and the other committee's you are looking at to help you, to not have all of the facts to base their opinions on? Maybe this is why you can't get the help for your son that you think he needs? You are reacting and upset at their lack of "help" but yet, you haven't given everybody the same or even all of the same information to make decisions on. Everyone needs to be on the same page and you have to be consistent. I know you don't trust many/any of these people, but I see it as more of a hindrance for you to not be completely truthful with everyone. No one can give you the help you want/need if you don't give them all the facts they need to make decisions. I don't think the judge, the po, the school district or all the powers that be, are going to consider you reliable and forthright since you didn't lay it all out in the open to begin with. You have to be able to trust them and they also need to trust in what you say. Think about it, no one is going to send a child to an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) just because they are bipolar, are having moods swings, doing minor cutting, won't go to school and because you his mother is overwhelmed. I promise I am not slighting you in the least, just offering my observation in hopes of more help coming your way. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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