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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 239929" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>The only thing I want to add here is this.. which I know i've said before but I think it bears repearting..</p><p></p><p>**any service they give you is more than you have now**</p><p></p><p>I learned to hold onto thoughts like that during my struggles for help for Youngest. It was the only way I could survive it. It's easy to jump to the "it won't work/it can't work" reaction.. but the fact is, it's not working now. I always figure it cannot possibly hurt to try something else, even if it's not exactly what I hoped it would be. </p><p></p><p>I think what some of us here are trying to tell you, as gently as we can, is that you have to face the fact you will not get exactly what you want for your difficult child. The more you resist something because it doesn't fit into this "best possible plan" you have in your mind, the more you are going to find resistance from the people that can give you services.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 239929, member: 1157"] The only thing I want to add here is this.. which I know i've said before but I think it bears repearting.. **any service they give you is more than you have now** I learned to hold onto thoughts like that during my struggles for help for Youngest. It was the only way I could survive it. It's easy to jump to the "it won't work/it can't work" reaction.. but the fact is, it's not working now. I always figure it cannot possibly hurt to try something else, even if it's not exactly what I hoped it would be. I think what some of us here are trying to tell you, as gently as we can, is that you have to face the fact you will not get exactly what you want for your difficult child. The more you resist something because it doesn't fit into this "best possible plan" you have in your mind, the more you are going to find resistance from the people that can give you services. [/QUOTE]
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