I must really seem awful because all I do is seem to complain or over react! Well my kids have brothers came in from out of town, planned on seeing them for a bit today. My kids were told a week in advance, a reminder yeasterday and this morning. Well, my kids decide they refuse to shower,dress, and straighten their rooms enough so their brothers can walk in and sit down ( about 10 minutes worth of cleaning really). Then my oldest starts complaining" what are we going to do, its all boring" I said" Talk, play Wii,Nintendo Ds, go outside ride,skate boards/scooters or bikes whichI have enough for all the kids to do. No she didn't like that answer and wanted them to come another time! Uggh, and she is the one with no issues! My son says he is cleaning by playing with his toys and leaving them on the floor to trip on! I will admit, both of my kids get too much and need to learn not to be greedy or super lazy! We can all be a lil lazy , but really? I love them, and I know this doesnt help my son's issues! My daughter refuses to turn on the tub water, my son refuses to dress himself.I am making them do it, but my father gives in!- Seems like they are their dad,because he hasn't wanted to see the boys in over 4 years now -only mine.Hope all of your mornings are going well !!!!!