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<blockquote data-quote="Elsieshaye" data-source="post: 517798" data-attributes="member: 12928"><p>An update: I did hear from my cousin, the executor, about a week after the exchange with difficult child above. Apparently, difficult child wants to go to the family farm (in a foreign country) and "cultivate herbs" on my portion (the bit he wants deeded over to him). He wasn't euphemistic about it with my cousin either, and put it in writing (email). Cousin was calling me to find out WTH the deal was, and to get my permission to read DS the riot act about drug use/cultivation in foreign lands with truly scary criminal justice systems. No danger of him somehow magically agreeing to sign things over to DS, lol. </p><p></p><p>This morning, I got an email from difficult child asking for his birth certificate, and asking exactly what I told my cousin about why I kicked difficult child out. I let him know I'd be sending along the birth certificate, and totally ignored the other bit. Not interested in getting entangled in a discussion about why I'm wrong / deluded / manipulative / lying in regards to what happened in October, which is certainly what would happen if I told him that I told cousin it was for drug use and disrespect. "But I don't do drugs, ma." Yeah, in a pig's eye. His girlfriend makes oblique references to his drug use in most of her posts on his wall, or he does in his comments to her. Cousin is anti-drug, and told me he wasn't comfortable having difficult child visit him and his wife and baby if he was doing drugs or engaging in anything criminal, so he'd probably have to withdraw his invitation to difficult child. I told cousin to do whatever he felt he needed to, so if cousin emailed difficult child to that end, that's probably what's triggering the question. Sigh.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elsieshaye, post: 517798, member: 12928"] An update: I did hear from my cousin, the executor, about a week after the exchange with difficult child above. Apparently, difficult child wants to go to the family farm (in a foreign country) and "cultivate herbs" on my portion (the bit he wants deeded over to him). He wasn't euphemistic about it with my cousin either, and put it in writing (email). Cousin was calling me to find out WTH the deal was, and to get my permission to read DS the riot act about drug use/cultivation in foreign lands with truly scary criminal justice systems. No danger of him somehow magically agreeing to sign things over to DS, lol. This morning, I got an email from difficult child asking for his birth certificate, and asking exactly what I told my cousin about why I kicked difficult child out. I let him know I'd be sending along the birth certificate, and totally ignored the other bit. Not interested in getting entangled in a discussion about why I'm wrong / deluded / manipulative / lying in regards to what happened in October, which is certainly what would happen if I told him that I told cousin it was for drug use and disrespect. "But I don't do drugs, ma." Yeah, in a pig's eye. His girlfriend makes oblique references to his drug use in most of her posts on his wall, or he does in his comments to her. Cousin is anti-drug, and told me he wasn't comfortable having difficult child visit him and his wife and baby if he was doing drugs or engaging in anything criminal, so he'd probably have to withdraw his invitation to difficult child. I told cousin to do whatever he felt he needed to, so if cousin emailed difficult child to that end, that's probably what's triggering the question. Sigh. [/QUOTE]
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