So I haven't heard from my Difficult Child for a few days and I always take that two ways....It is a relief to not hear all the drama, but wandering what's going on, especially with my grandson. I read another article on borderline personality disorder, which I think describes my daughter to a tee. But every time I read one of these articles I go into guilt mode! What if this really is something she can't control, maybe it is a mental illness, and I am turning my back on her! What if there isnt really something or someone out there that can help her? Am I doing the wrong thing by keeping my distance with her? I know what everyone will say, but I am having a weak moment It all just makes me so sad !!!!