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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 118939" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Ok. </p><p>Well, first off I never gave my kids permission to date anyone of any age, except in a large group of boys and girls (supervised) until they turned fifteen. I would amend that contract. in my opinion only (I could be wrong) she's too young to date and I wouldn't allow it at all. It's YOUR house, YOUR rules, YOU can change the contract. </p><p>Secondly, does she have a therapist? If so, you can talk about it in therapy, but I wouldn't back down just because she's going to destroy the house. In fact, I'd tell her that if she breaks anything and gets violent you may have to call the police to take her to a hospital, but I'd tell her away from home so she has time to think about if she wants to "go there." </p><p>If she is completely out of control every time you try to tell her to do something, I would seriously want her hospitalized to see what's going on and if it can be stopped with the right medication and treatment. I personally (in my humble opinion) don't feel she is in any shape to get involved with anyone of the opposite sex. She just isn't stable enough to deal with dating and, again, in my humble opinion only I feel she's way too young and even more immature. Good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 118939, member: 1550"] Ok. Well, first off I never gave my kids permission to date anyone of any age, except in a large group of boys and girls (supervised) until they turned fifteen. I would amend that contract. in my opinion only (I could be wrong) she's too young to date and I wouldn't allow it at all. It's YOUR house, YOUR rules, YOU can change the contract. Secondly, does she have a therapist? If so, you can talk about it in therapy, but I wouldn't back down just because she's going to destroy the house. In fact, I'd tell her that if she breaks anything and gets violent you may have to call the police to take her to a hospital, but I'd tell her away from home so she has time to think about if she wants to "go there." If she is completely out of control every time you try to tell her to do something, I would seriously want her hospitalized to see what's going on and if it can be stopped with the right medication and treatment. I personally (in my humble opinion) don't feel she is in any shape to get involved with anyone of the opposite sex. She just isn't stable enough to deal with dating and, again, in my humble opinion only I feel she's way too young and even more immature. Good luck! [/QUOTE]
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