Kanga Koi
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JJJ
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Eeyore has minimal online presence. He had a facebook account with full privacy controls but he rarely goes on it since he can only get to it from the computer in my room. I think she will find it almost impossible to find him. Tigger is the same. I'm more worried about Piglet cause her name is everywhere due to her activties. I've started to have her create new accounts (Instagram, Twitter, etc) with her nickname (one she got long after Kanga left) and disable the old ones.
husband just wants us to move to a tropical island
husband just wants us to move to a tropical island
JJJ
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We have a plan. Eeyore wanted one developed for when Kanga turned 18. Assuming initial contact is online or by mail, it involves him sending one letter stating "Do not contact me ever again." If she does, the second letter is from an attorney. If she shows up at the house, 911 will bring the police out to escort her off our property and if she returns, a RO will be obtained. Our town doesn't mess with stalking and they will arrest her if she shows up after the RO is issued.
I really don't think an in person visit is likely. She is more likely to mail a letter or look on facebook.
rejectedmom
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I would consentrate on Eeyore & get him good and strong so he can stand up to her if he has to. -RM
DammitJanet
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I like the idea of Eeyore getting a name change if he would like to. Or at least an alias. Does he have a middle name he might like to use normally instead of his first name as soon as he turns 18? Since I have no clue what your real names are I will tell you about Cory's name. After I became lucid and realized I really didnt name him what I should have named him, I realized Cory was a fine name for a child and even an adult if he decided he liked it, however if grew up to be some sort of important person like a banker, lawyer or politician, I figured he might want to have a more important sounding name. If so he could go by his middle name and sound more important. At that point he would be C. Allen McXXXXX. That sounds a bit more formal. LOL. Now as if he ever had a chance at an important life so he is still Cory!
Perhaps Eeyore could be E. Adam Jones and Piglet could be P. Abigail Jones. Lots of kids actually go by their middle names...its quite common down in the south. Kanga might not even remember their middle names to be honest and only be looking for their first names and a picture of their faces.
Perhaps Eeyore could be E. Adam Jones and Piglet could be P. Abigail Jones. Lots of kids actually go by their middle names...its quite common down in the south. Kanga might not even remember their middle names to be honest and only be looking for their first names and a picture of their faces.
JJJ
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Another chapter....
Kanga moved in with boyfriend at the motel on Thursday. She moved most of her stuff including the very nice refrigorator my family got her. By Monday, she had moved back into the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) minus most of her stuff. boyfriend is advertising "his" fridge on facebook as "for sale". I'm livid. Besides the fridge ad, the rest of his page is all about how often he 'bangs' her. I really, really hope that she finally sees the light and that she chose to go back to treatment rather than he tossed her out once he had her stuff and whatever cash she had.
Kanga moved in with boyfriend at the motel on Thursday. She moved most of her stuff including the very nice refrigorator my family got her. By Monday, she had moved back into the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) minus most of her stuff. boyfriend is advertising "his" fridge on facebook as "for sale". I'm livid. Besides the fridge ad, the rest of his page is all about how often he 'bangs' her. I really, really hope that she finally sees the light and that she chose to go back to treatment rather than he tossed her out once he had her stuff and whatever cash she had.
JJJ
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Staff seems smart. They used the excuse of the holiday weekend to tell her that they would set up a discharge meeting this week and then just considered her 'absent without permission'. We all knew it wouldn't last long and I am very grateful that they stalled long enough that her butt was back in her Residential Treatment Center (RTC) bed before we had to have a meeting. Per the funding source, we don't have to have a meeting until she has missed 14 nights in a row or 90 nights in a year (I think).
She wants a weekly treat for sleeping each night in her Residential Treatment Center (RTC) bed, taking her medications and going to school. She is still such a child.
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JJJ
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I'm glad we have months until her birthday. I can't see ever giving her a valuable gift again knowing it would just be given to the next guy and sold for a fraction of what we paid for it.
