Thankfully Kanga's projected discharge is being changed to Jan 2010. I will feel better when they actually put it in writing (so far the only written document says "it may be changed"). Her voices are getting quite loud and bossy again. At our first weekend visit (we slept at the family house and she slept in her dorm), the voices commanded her to kill us. She's had two 'day passes' since then and the voices bothered her some on the first pass and alot on the 2nd pass. She's able to push them away for much of the visit but there are these break through moments where there is a struggle for control between her and the voices and they "make" her say things. (No physical violence yet.) Today the voices tried to get her to hurt one of the other girls at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC). She didn't but staff said for the first time they "saw" her struggling with the voices. We have a quarterly review for the funding source on Monday and that will officially change the return home projection to January. The Residential Treatment Center (RTC) has sent me their quarterly review paperwork (different from the document that will come out of the meeting on Monday) and once again I will refuse to sign it because it says that I had input in the creation of the document and I DID NOT!!!! So frustrating, in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for 14 months and still no comprehension that either they create the document and take ownership of it OR if they want me to sign off on it, then I need to be allowed to participate in the meeting when they write it.