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<blockquote data-quote="JJJ" data-source="post: 114030" data-attributes="member: 1169"><p>Klmno - Her hockey and phone calls are very important to her which is why they are the daily rewards that she can earn. I know that without a daily reward, we will not get anywhere.</p><p></p><p>As to what did she do, she tried to kill us by pulling the car off the road. She also tried to strangle her youngest brother, attacked her other brother and jumped out of a moving car and ran. She still refuses to accept responsibility for what she did, nor does she understand the severity of what she did. She says it was our fault that she tried to hurt us and that her brother's deserved to be hurt. If she was showing ANY remorse, I'd be more likely to be easier but she just doesn't care.</p><p></p><p>We have tried allowances. However, she steals money and if she has some money of her own, we cannot always tell what was stolen v. what is hers. We have tried just having an "account" for her on paper but she consistently breaks things and has to pay for them. I think she owes us close to $1,000 at this point. At 13, she doesn't have the earning potential to pay the back. So, we are not doing allowance until after she returns from Residential Treatment Center (RTC).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JJJ, post: 114030, member: 1169"] Klmno - Her hockey and phone calls are very important to her which is why they are the daily rewards that she can earn. I know that without a daily reward, we will not get anywhere. As to what did she do, she tried to kill us by pulling the car off the road. She also tried to strangle her youngest brother, attacked her other brother and jumped out of a moving car and ran. She still refuses to accept responsibility for what she did, nor does she understand the severity of what she did. She says it was our fault that she tried to hurt us and that her brother's deserved to be hurt. If she was showing ANY remorse, I'd be more likely to be easier but she just doesn't care. We have tried allowances. However, she steals money and if she has some money of her own, we cannot always tell what was stolen v. what is hers. We have tried just having an "account" for her on paper but she consistently breaks things and has to pay for them. I think she owes us close to $1,000 at this point. At 13, she doesn't have the earning potential to pay the back. So, we are not doing allowance until after she returns from Residential Treatment Center (RTC). [/QUOTE]
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