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Kicked my 23 yr. old son out - was I wrong?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 648563" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>SeeGenieTx, YES! We are dying inside and they don't even care. But that's the way it is. Did they EVER care? I don't think my ex-son, as I call him sarcastically, ever cared. We adopted him at six and he just did not attach to us the way the other kids did, although I loved him as if I'd given birth again. It's not fair, is it?</p><p></p><p>I hardly have any DNA family and those who exist are so awful I don't even talk to them so my support system is simply my husband and my other children and the people on this board. I don't talk about my son to others anyway. Well, my therapist...that's it. I'd rather not have rumors start to fly.</p><p></p><p>I forgot to suggest you forget looking at his FB. See, it didn't tell you anything you don't already know about him and often our little honeys love to put nasty stuff on FB just for us, usually about how terrible we are as human beings. Sometimes they will post "I'm starving and have no money, but my *^&% mom doesn't care." It's not true. None of them are hungry. Hunger isn't a big problem even on the streets, as there are many ways to eat and sources of food. And trust me somehow the homeless population, which he isn't a part of yet, find the money to fund their cigarette habits and their dope. Even if they do t illegally, they get money. Some beg. Some steal. Some con. There are things you just don't ever need to know, Know what I mean?? I suggest be careful about reading and answering texts from him and try not to look at FB. Again, if anything fatal happens to him, you are his mother and will be notified. You don't need FB to verify that he is screwing up, but that he is alive..</p><p></p><p>Hugs and more hugs for your poor hurting heart. I know how it feels, but we have a life to live anyway and we have to go on and learn to be happy. And we can!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 648563, member: 1550"] SeeGenieTx, YES! We are dying inside and they don't even care. But that's the way it is. Did they EVER care? I don't think my ex-son, as I call him sarcastically, ever cared. We adopted him at six and he just did not attach to us the way the other kids did, although I loved him as if I'd given birth again. It's not fair, is it? I hardly have any DNA family and those who exist are so awful I don't even talk to them so my support system is simply my husband and my other children and the people on this board. I don't talk about my son to others anyway. Well, my therapist...that's it. I'd rather not have rumors start to fly. I forgot to suggest you forget looking at his FB. See, it didn't tell you anything you don't already know about him and often our little honeys love to put nasty stuff on FB just for us, usually about how terrible we are as human beings. Sometimes they will post "I'm starving and have no money, but my *^&% mom doesn't care." It's not true. None of them are hungry. Hunger isn't a big problem even on the streets, as there are many ways to eat and sources of food. And trust me somehow the homeless population, which he isn't a part of yet, find the money to fund their cigarette habits and their dope. Even if they do t illegally, they get money. Some beg. Some steal. Some con. There are things you just don't ever need to know, Know what I mean?? I suggest be careful about reading and answering texts from him and try not to look at FB. Again, if anything fatal happens to him, you are his mother and will be notified. You don't need FB to verify that he is screwing up, but that he is alive.. Hugs and more hugs for your poor hurting heart. I know how it feels, but we have a life to live anyway and we have to go on and learn to be happy. And we can! [/QUOTE]
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