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Kinda long but need some advice...thanks in advance
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 362320" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>If this man smacked a child in the face? WHY isn't DSS and the police involved? He needs to be under the jail for laying hands on an innocent. SHE needs to have her children taken away from her and go into therapy so she quits picking looser boyfriends and learn how to stand on her own two feet, keep her legs shut, and make a living for herself and the family she's created. </p><p> </p><p>As far as asking her for custody? Nah. She's not going to give up the child support money - which I would guess is what keeps the looser boyfriends around - (free ride on your son's, and 2 other son's backs). </p><p> </p><p>I am happy to hear the other Grandparents are on board with this, but I would be VERY careful about tipping my hand to them. After all she is THEIR daughter, and then again there is that little bit of child support money, plus other State benefits from taking in someone elses' child. </p><p> </p><p>I think without telling anyone I'd get an attorney. I can see her using the boy as a pawn between you and her parents if there was such a thing as shared custody - but thinking - If you could work out a deal where you keep YOUR grandson and the other grandparents keep the other 2 - she goes in for counseling and upon completion of whatever terms you and her parents state - she could apply to get her kids back (I would give a deadline also) as a motivator. </p><p> </p><p>Just thinking out loud. I'm sorry for the little one. I'll add him to the "needs angels" list.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 362320, member: 4964"] If this man smacked a child in the face? WHY isn't DSS and the police involved? He needs to be under the jail for laying hands on an innocent. SHE needs to have her children taken away from her and go into therapy so she quits picking looser boyfriends and learn how to stand on her own two feet, keep her legs shut, and make a living for herself and the family she's created. As far as asking her for custody? Nah. She's not going to give up the child support money - which I would guess is what keeps the looser boyfriends around - (free ride on your son's, and 2 other son's backs). I am happy to hear the other Grandparents are on board with this, but I would be VERY careful about tipping my hand to them. After all she is THEIR daughter, and then again there is that little bit of child support money, plus other State benefits from taking in someone elses' child. I think without telling anyone I'd get an attorney. I can see her using the boy as a pawn between you and her parents if there was such a thing as shared custody - but thinking - If you could work out a deal where you keep YOUR grandson and the other grandparents keep the other 2 - she goes in for counseling and upon completion of whatever terms you and her parents state - she could apply to get her kids back (I would give a deadline also) as a motivator. Just thinking out loud. I'm sorry for the little one. I'll add him to the "needs angels" list. [/QUOTE]
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