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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 633364" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>How long have you known about the heroin? I know for me that was a punch that I have yet to get over. </p><p></p><p>I dont know how we deal to be honest. I have come to the point where I dont believe much of what he tells me, dont much care about anything he does, dont much want to talk to him, dont much want to see him. This is breaking his heart but oddly it isnt hurting me all that badly. </p><p></p><p>I was so devastated when he told me he got hooked on heroin in TX but then had to switch to coke here in our town because he couldnt find it here. I dont know if I believe him or not. I tend to believe him because when he first told me we went all sorts of places looking for help and they all would only help those addicted to heroin or opiods but they said he didnt meet criteria. Now I simply dont worry about if he gets clean. Thats up to him and I dont want to hear about it. </p><p></p><p>He does tick me off sometimes with the things he does. Last weekend his father got to go out on a fishing trip and caught some Mahi Mahi. He didnt get a whole lot but I offered to bring him over some leftovers the next day. Oh no, he didnt want leftovers, he wanted fish he could cook. I got exasperated and told him fine, I will throw them in the garbage. I have a bottle of soap I was going to bring over that same day and I told him I would bring that over the next time I was passing by. </p><p></p><p>In other words I think we go through stages and we get tired when we get there. Sometimes done is just done.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 633364, member: 1514"] How long have you known about the heroin? I know for me that was a punch that I have yet to get over. I dont know how we deal to be honest. I have come to the point where I dont believe much of what he tells me, dont much care about anything he does, dont much want to talk to him, dont much want to see him. This is breaking his heart but oddly it isnt hurting me all that badly. I was so devastated when he told me he got hooked on heroin in TX but then had to switch to coke here in our town because he couldnt find it here. I dont know if I believe him or not. I tend to believe him because when he first told me we went all sorts of places looking for help and they all would only help those addicted to heroin or opiods but they said he didnt meet criteria. Now I simply dont worry about if he gets clean. Thats up to him and I dont want to hear about it. He does tick me off sometimes with the things he does. Last weekend his father got to go out on a fishing trip and caught some Mahi Mahi. He didnt get a whole lot but I offered to bring him over some leftovers the next day. Oh no, he didnt want leftovers, he wanted fish he could cook. I got exasperated and told him fine, I will throw them in the garbage. I have a bottle of soap I was going to bring over that same day and I told him I would bring that over the next time I was passing by. In other words I think we go through stages and we get tired when we get there. Sometimes done is just done. [/QUOTE]
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