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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 359357" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Witz, men just don't think about stuff like that. It is part of them being a different species as far as I could tell. Heck, my husband had the kids convinced that if they didn't hold their breath as they walk/drive past a cemetery then they will be possessed by a ghost. FINALLY thank you is old enough to realize it isn't true. Both he and Jess have had MAJOR terrified meltdowns (usually at night while husband is asleep and will NOT wake up because he never does) because they were terrified because they forgot to hold their breath. I dealt with that for YEARS until Jess and thank you were each about 8-10 years old. It is a LARGE part of why my pcs are told that except on really serious (to MOM) issues, Daddy is largely for decoration. </p><p></p><p>Men are strange.</p><p></p><p>M sure can hold a grudge. I have also wondered if after people tire of my gfgbro if they rethink what he has said about me. He has ALWAYS got a group of people who think he is the greatest guy on earth. Even when he was a raging alcoholic the really nasty stuff was saved for family.</p><p></p><p>Withholding the tax refund check is a MAJOR felony. If M is really angry ALL he has to do is tell the IRS that his landlady got his check and won't let him have it. It not only violates IRS related laws, it also violates laws related to mail and the Postal Service. If she is a PITA for husband then he might tell her that. IRS will issue a new check AND prosecute the landlady.</p><p></p><p>NONE of these issues are YOUR problems. Yes, M is probably not responsible enough to really take care of either the car or the apartment. He probably is going to have some problems. IF you are feeling like it, you may want to offer advice later - IF he calls and BEGS for advice.</p><p></p><p>L is same old same old. Boyfriend problem is tired of her. He has some problems because he has kept this bizarre relationship going. L will find another guy, probably several very soon. This is not your problem. It is nice of husband to chat with her, though NOT to keep you wondering about the cemetery thing. Maybe L really will find some guy with enough money to support her to have kids with. It IS a goal. Not a common one these days and not one she is really ready for the responsibility of. But that is HER problem.</p><p></p><p>detach, detach, detach, detach. It really IS all you can do. Taking on these problems would not be good for you or them. I hope that they both finally have their acts together enough to handle this maturely.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 359357, member: 1233"] Witz, men just don't think about stuff like that. It is part of them being a different species as far as I could tell. Heck, my husband had the kids convinced that if they didn't hold their breath as they walk/drive past a cemetery then they will be possessed by a ghost. FINALLY thank you is old enough to realize it isn't true. Both he and Jess have had MAJOR terrified meltdowns (usually at night while husband is asleep and will NOT wake up because he never does) because they were terrified because they forgot to hold their breath. I dealt with that for YEARS until Jess and thank you were each about 8-10 years old. It is a LARGE part of why my pcs are told that except on really serious (to MOM) issues, Daddy is largely for decoration. Men are strange. M sure can hold a grudge. I have also wondered if after people tire of my gfgbro if they rethink what he has said about me. He has ALWAYS got a group of people who think he is the greatest guy on earth. Even when he was a raging alcoholic the really nasty stuff was saved for family. Withholding the tax refund check is a MAJOR felony. If M is really angry ALL he has to do is tell the IRS that his landlady got his check and won't let him have it. It not only violates IRS related laws, it also violates laws related to mail and the Postal Service. If she is a PITA for husband then he might tell her that. IRS will issue a new check AND prosecute the landlady. NONE of these issues are YOUR problems. Yes, M is probably not responsible enough to really take care of either the car or the apartment. He probably is going to have some problems. IF you are feeling like it, you may want to offer advice later - IF he calls and BEGS for advice. L is same old same old. Boyfriend problem is tired of her. He has some problems because he has kept this bizarre relationship going. L will find another guy, probably several very soon. This is not your problem. It is nice of husband to chat with her, though NOT to keep you wondering about the cemetery thing. Maybe L really will find some guy with enough money to support her to have kids with. It IS a goal. Not a common one these days and not one she is really ready for the responsibility of. But that is HER problem. detach, detach, detach, detach. It really IS all you can do. Taking on these problems would not be good for you or them. I hope that they both finally have their acts together enough to handle this maturely. [/QUOTE]
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