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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 645533" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Your kids don't really want to go.</p><p></p><p>I'd get out of Grandpa's and aunt's house (confused at whose house it is) and live YOUR life with YOUR kids and see if you can still have a good impact on them. Why keep caring for all these adults yet ship your kids to alcoholic father who hits is wives? He's going to get angry and hit them too one day.</p><p></p><p>You can go for therapy and learn to take a strong stand against the disrespect of your daughter. A lot of women don't work. I chose not the work so that my kids never had to see a babysitter or a daycare and none of them did. My kids were NOT ashamed of that...I was the "go to" house for fun, sandwiches, drives to practices, and some of the kids called me "mom." Fat? I was fat too at one time. So? Many mothers are. You don't drive? So? Your daughter is making excuses why to be angry at you...I think she is just angry, period. If she is an Aspie there is way too much chaos and angry people in her world plus she is a teenager. Your son needs a quiet environment too...too heal. Does Dad have a quiet environment? Will he take them for help? You are not getting good advice from your family. Who told you not to homeschool your daughter? Lots of kids don't fit into conventional school. Forcing her to go will not make her more social...it may make her more fearful. She needs to get some sort of professional help.</p><p></p><p>I hope you learn to drive, get a job, get out of Dodge, and worry about yourself and your children because you have WAY too many people treating you like a child, bossing your around, telling your wh at to do, and forbidding you to do anything you like to do just so that you will available to take care of their needs. That isn't being a good daughter/granddaughter/niece/sister...that is being a slave to all of them while the kids look on and talk to you the same way the others abuse you. I'd get rid of the others, not the kids.I know you think you can't do it alone. I didn't think I could either when I divorced my first husband. But I did it. I reached out for free counseling and free support groups because I had no money and no family support. A lot is out there if you want to use it.</p><p></p><p>I hope you realize that you are an adult and nobody can tell you what to do anymore. I understand the guilt and obligation feelings, but not to that many people a nd I don't understand sticking with Grandpa and your dad and your aunt and your sister yet not with your kids. To me, and in my opinion only, that is backwards. If you backed off...guess what?...they'd find ways to care for themselves.</p><p></p><p>But...wishing you the best and Good luck!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 645533, member: 1550"] Your kids don't really want to go. I'd get out of Grandpa's and aunt's house (confused at whose house it is) and live YOUR life with YOUR kids and see if you can still have a good impact on them. Why keep caring for all these adults yet ship your kids to alcoholic father who hits is wives? He's going to get angry and hit them too one day. You can go for therapy and learn to take a strong stand against the disrespect of your daughter. A lot of women don't work. I chose not the work so that my kids never had to see a babysitter or a daycare and none of them did. My kids were NOT ashamed of that...I was the "go to" house for fun, sandwiches, drives to practices, and some of the kids called me "mom." Fat? I was fat too at one time. So? Many mothers are. You don't drive? So? Your daughter is making excuses why to be angry at you...I think she is just angry, period. If she is an Aspie there is way too much chaos and angry people in her world plus she is a teenager. Your son needs a quiet environment too...too heal. Does Dad have a quiet environment? Will he take them for help? You are not getting good advice from your family. Who told you not to homeschool your daughter? Lots of kids don't fit into conventional school. Forcing her to go will not make her more social...it may make her more fearful. She needs to get some sort of professional help. I hope you learn to drive, get a job, get out of Dodge, and worry about yourself and your children because you have WAY too many people treating you like a child, bossing your around, telling your wh at to do, and forbidding you to do anything you like to do just so that you will available to take care of their needs. That isn't being a good daughter/granddaughter/niece/sister...that is being a slave to all of them while the kids look on and talk to you the same way the others abuse you. I'd get rid of the others, not the kids.I know you think you can't do it alone. I didn't think I could either when I divorced my first husband. But I did it. I reached out for free counseling and free support groups because I had no money and no family support. A lot is out there if you want to use it. I hope you realize that you are an adult and nobody can tell you what to do anymore. I understand the guilt and obligation feelings, but not to that many people a nd I don't understand sticking with Grandpa and your dad and your aunt and your sister yet not with your kids. To me, and in my opinion only, that is backwards. If you backed off...guess what?...they'd find ways to care for themselves. But...wishing you the best and Good luck!!!! [/QUOTE]
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