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<blockquote data-quote="helpme" data-source="post: 356010" data-attributes="member: 8202"><p>Um, I don't ever trust anyone when it comes to court orders.</p><p>Also, around here the lawyers write the orders so sometimes</p><p>the other lawyer never sees the information. I've also seen</p><p>found orders not "entered" because lawyers "forgot", misplaced,</p><p>and so forth.</p><p></p><p>Took family court administration the entire day to figure out who</p><p>held custody of difficult child (it was a 3way) and which took presidence.</p><p>Things got worse when they um, I forget the word, but it meant</p><p>to "join" cases of juvenille/divorce/order of protection. The "joining"</p><p>meant the cases stayed with one judge (which did help with criminal</p><p>issues because for a brief period 16-17 I would of had to agree to</p><p>any plea deals, but of course STBX was stalling until child reached 17.</p><p></p><p>Then there was the order to break them apart, because difficult child became </p><p>17, and more things were unjoined when he turned 18.</p><p></p><p>And, things got really messy when there was the OP hearing against</p><p>son trial dates and middle filed for OP against me. Since we needed</p><p>everyone's lawyers and multiples for difficult child, things somehow got posted</p><p>that difficult child was filing the order against me and not middle one. That</p><p>was a big mess, difficult child's record needed to be updated because witnesses</p><p>in my case were also state's witnesses against him on violations of</p><p>the OP. But they had it "looking" as if difficult child had an order against him,</p><p>and that he was filing one back to me --which ex's attorneys did to</p><p>make him look good during the felony plea deal.</p><p></p><p>My lawyer didn't catch the mistake even though he worked both cases,</p><p>and the correspondence with him showed difficult child filed by ex against me.</p><p>But again, it was my one lawyer up against 5 for STBX, difficult child, and middle.</p><p></p><p>I always go check for myself. I've got a dumb @@@ one now</p><p>who is so busy chasing women and drinking that all sorts of stuff</p><p>is going wrong. I knew it was bad when the IRS notified me that</p><p>I was no longer able to pay him for services. But the lawyer</p><p>is very influential with the judges. I've been told things were </p><p>ordered that weren't and vice versa. I've been told court was</p><p>rescheduled to find out it wasn't, and my lawyer did not appear</p><p>but worked out issues with STBX's lawyer over the phone. I don't</p><p>trust anyone anymore.</p><p></p><p>Maybe looking at difficult child's file might open a "loophole" for you.</p><p>You may find a better way to assist your difficult child. Sending you </p><p>good luck vibes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpme, post: 356010, member: 8202"] Um, I don't ever trust anyone when it comes to court orders. Also, around here the lawyers write the orders so sometimes the other lawyer never sees the information. I've also seen found orders not "entered" because lawyers "forgot", misplaced, and so forth. Took family court administration the entire day to figure out who held custody of difficult child (it was a 3way) and which took presidence. Things got worse when they um, I forget the word, but it meant to "join" cases of juvenille/divorce/order of protection. The "joining" meant the cases stayed with one judge (which did help with criminal issues because for a brief period 16-17 I would of had to agree to any plea deals, but of course STBX was stalling until child reached 17. Then there was the order to break them apart, because difficult child became 17, and more things were unjoined when he turned 18. And, things got really messy when there was the OP hearing against son trial dates and middle filed for OP against me. Since we needed everyone's lawyers and multiples for difficult child, things somehow got posted that difficult child was filing the order against me and not middle one. That was a big mess, difficult child's record needed to be updated because witnesses in my case were also state's witnesses against him on violations of the OP. But they had it "looking" as if difficult child had an order against him, and that he was filing one back to me --which ex's attorneys did to make him look good during the felony plea deal. My lawyer didn't catch the mistake even though he worked both cases, and the correspondence with him showed difficult child filed by ex against me. But again, it was my one lawyer up against 5 for STBX, difficult child, and middle. I always go check for myself. I've got a dumb @@@ one now who is so busy chasing women and drinking that all sorts of stuff is going wrong. I knew it was bad when the IRS notified me that I was no longer able to pay him for services. But the lawyer is very influential with the judges. I've been told things were ordered that weren't and vice versa. I've been told court was rescheduled to find out it wasn't, and my lawyer did not appear but worked out issues with STBX's lawyer over the phone. I don't trust anyone anymore. Maybe looking at difficult child's file might open a "loophole" for you. You may find a better way to assist your difficult child. Sending you good luck vibes. [/QUOTE]
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