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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 305840" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Most therapist's and sd people we worked with thought this was a load of bull, too, so I'm not surprised that you have had that exxperience. I think that's why the book is important, though- it is trying to tell us that what we instinctively think as parents sometimes and what we are being taught by others' in our society about how to treat our kids is not working- especially with our difficult child kids. I finally came to the conclusion that if I try a therapist's suggestion a couple of times and it is making my son worse, I am over-riding it with a parental decision even if that decision is only based on my gut feeling. LOL!</p><p></p><p>It sounds like you are going about this in a good way. It didn't really work for my son until he was in middle school and wanted a regular set allowance- which I would not give him. I incorporated this system where he could earn it. But, they all march to their own drummer so if this works for your son that's great!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 305840, member: 3699"] Most therapist's and sd people we worked with thought this was a load of bull, too, so I'm not surprised that you have had that exxperience. I think that's why the book is important, though- it is trying to tell us that what we instinctively think as parents sometimes and what we are being taught by others' in our society about how to treat our kids is not working- especially with our difficult child kids. I finally came to the conclusion that if I try a therapist's suggestion a couple of times and it is making my son worse, I am over-riding it with a parental decision even if that decision is only based on my gut feeling. LOL! It sounds like you are going about this in a good way. It didn't really work for my son until he was in middle school and wanted a regular set allowance- which I would not give him. I incorporated this system where he could earn it. But, they all march to their own drummer so if this works for your son that's great! [/QUOTE]
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