Lets join hands in support for Timer Lady
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lovemysons
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Linda, my heart goes out to you. Have been there done that with husband moving out on me and kids. Most of it was "difficult child related". We DID reconsile but the pain stayed with me.
I hope you will grow stronger through all of this. I am so sorry your h seems to want to back out of the deal, the promises, right now.
You have my support and care from Texas....and onto
I hope you will grow stronger through all of this. I am so sorry your h seems to want to back out of the deal, the promises, right now.
You have my support and care from Texas....and onto
everywoman
Well-Known Member
Grabbing on to New York from SC and reaching out to.....
tiredmommy
Well-Known Member
New York again. I'm so sorry you are going through this...
Reaching out to...
Reaching out to...
goldenguru
Active Member
Michigan. Hang in there Linda. Dust off that warrior gear!
Reaching out to ...
Reaching out to ...
smallworld
Moderator
Maryland. Hugs of support going out to you and kt. And on to . . .
house of cards
New Member
I'm sorry you need to deal with this right now, I'm praying for your health and strenght for your spirit from NJ.
Marcie Mac
Just Plain Ole Tired
Good thougts being sent your way from So Ca
Marcie
Marcie
timer lady
Queen of Hearts
Thank you all! I'm beyond exhausted ~ calming kt, taking & then refusing calls from husband. At this point, I'm ready to call a locksmith & change the locks. I'm not going to; not sure of the legalities ~ just tired of the verbal abuse that is spewing out of my husband's mouth.
I believe there will be many changes here in the next month or so; just not sure what they will be.
I so appreciate the support here. We will need your positive thoughts & prayers, all of us. kt, wm, myself & (dare I say it), husband. As angry as I am right now, I'm more confused.
Thank you.
I believe there will be many changes here in the next month or so; just not sure what they will be.
I so appreciate the support here. We will need your positive thoughts & prayers, all of us. kt, wm, myself & (dare I say it), husband. As angry as I am right now, I'm more confused.
Thank you.
crazymama30
Active Member
Hugs and prayers from Oregon to your whole family. I hope you all get through this. I really hate mental illness, and can't help but wonder if some of what husband is doing is due to his BiPolar (BP)?
Hugs, and hang in there.
Hugs, and hang in there.
mom_in_training
New Member
Another well wisher from Southern Ca, My hopes and prayers are with you Linda. Hang in there.
KateM
Member
Sorry to be chiming in late, but all the best wished for your family, Linda! You have such a strong spirit and wonderful family support.
It may be past the point for this, but I remember a few years ago, you and husband had a lovely time at a retreat. Even if you don't want to go with husband, is this something that would be helpful to you alone?
It may be past the point for this, but I remember a few years ago, you and husband had a lovely time at a retreat. Even if you don't want to go with husband, is this something that would be helpful to you alone?
hand out from SC to......
Timer Lady, After I read this the other day I was reminded of nov 26 seventeen years ago so vividly. I wept. I am not one of those 'good cry' types, either. Like alot of families we are having a tight month this year. I decided to prepare our turkey early.
And I counted all the blessings that ultimately befell my family when I was left to my own devises. I learned so much about what it means to be me, accept myself and to accept the limitations of others. My son is doing well in many ways. He has been spared more heartache than he knows.
We are living in a house now for one whole year...something new for us...at a time when so many have or are loosing theirs.
One of the thoughts that helps me since that unimaginable moment so long ago is
that dead ends are a good thing. At least I need not wear myself out a little more trying something I know is not going to work.
I know that whatever you are going through is so overwhelming and painful no matter how sturdy a soul you maybe...It passes...it really does...it is a terrible time...learn learn learn to find your own peace of mind. Be the best freind to yourself.
Our turkey turned out perfict. I made instant potato rolled in balls. I plated it with a five star presentation with chilli oil drizzle on the white plate.
May the years ahead far exceed all broken dreams, my dear, and the joy of heart sustain in all weather.
And I counted all the blessings that ultimately befell my family when I was left to my own devises. I learned so much about what it means to be me, accept myself and to accept the limitations of others. My son is doing well in many ways. He has been spared more heartache than he knows.
We are living in a house now for one whole year...something new for us...at a time when so many have or are loosing theirs.
One of the thoughts that helps me since that unimaginable moment so long ago is
that dead ends are a good thing. At least I need not wear myself out a little more trying something I know is not going to work.
I know that whatever you are going through is so overwhelming and painful no matter how sturdy a soul you maybe...It passes...it really does...it is a terrible time...learn learn learn to find your own peace of mind. Be the best freind to yourself.
Our turkey turned out perfict. I made instant potato rolled in balls. I plated it with a five star presentation with chilli oil drizzle on the white plate.
May the years ahead far exceed all broken dreams, my dear, and the joy of heart sustain in all weather.
