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Letter from Justin - ??? Read between the lines ladies
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<blockquote data-quote="DavidH" data-source="post: 136472"><p>Well, I am glad I posted this letter and the other post on the visit.</p><p> </p><p>I think the biggest thing is I give to much trust in what people say - Even my employees and I get burnt 90% of the time for doing so.. A problem I have had my whole life... I find it hard to be ugly or say NO always too willing to give my all to everyone... As they say "one of the nice guys" and yes they always do finish last!</p><p> </p><p>I think it is time to get our family theripist to start coming to the home to have our weekly sessions going again, as he left it up to me for when I am ready and closer to when Justin is to come home. </p><p> </p><p>I just do not want to believe that Justin is so smart that even after 7 months in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) he is still able to manipulate me and me not even see it.</p><p> </p><p>As far as things he went into Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for he is doing very very very well, his issues now are consistancy on the little things I posted about a couple of weeks ago. </p><p> </p><p>I do not want the wool pulled over my eyes (wth does that mean ha ha)</p><p> </p><p>I want to believe life changing changes are being made by him because he sees it needs to be... but he is so stinking smart.... he does not beg to come home and accepts he is where he is for his actions in the past and admits the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) is helping him.. I can take and accept that it is hard to come back and be there, and I am fine with him expressing it.. </p><p> </p><p>As far as the guitar, I think it was a mistake now... I had even told him I would not buy, but he would earn it so he can appreciate it even more than me just buying something... I did buy it simply because I have said no to it for so long and it has been the one thing he has wanted to learn for so long... most times it is always buy me this buy me this and it goes away after a while... or I have bought big ticket items and he never used them or only did until the newness of it wore off.</p><p> </p><p>Ugg this is a tough spot to be in... because I see the light at the end of the tunnel and I want to make sure it is not my imangination.. but a real train coming down on me.. (if that makes sense to you .. bonus!!)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DavidH, post: 136472"] Well, I am glad I posted this letter and the other post on the visit. I think the biggest thing is I give to much trust in what people say - Even my employees and I get burnt 90% of the time for doing so.. A problem I have had my whole life... I find it hard to be ugly or say NO always too willing to give my all to everyone... As they say "one of the nice guys" and yes they always do finish last! I think it is time to get our family theripist to start coming to the home to have our weekly sessions going again, as he left it up to me for when I am ready and closer to when Justin is to come home. I just do not want to believe that Justin is so smart that even after 7 months in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) he is still able to manipulate me and me not even see it. As far as things he went into Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for he is doing very very very well, his issues now are consistancy on the little things I posted about a couple of weeks ago. I do not want the wool pulled over my eyes (wth does that mean ha ha) I want to believe life changing changes are being made by him because he sees it needs to be... but he is so stinking smart.... he does not beg to come home and accepts he is where he is for his actions in the past and admits the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) is helping him.. I can take and accept that it is hard to come back and be there, and I am fine with him expressing it.. As far as the guitar, I think it was a mistake now... I had even told him I would not buy, but he would earn it so he can appreciate it even more than me just buying something... I did buy it simply because I have said no to it for so long and it has been the one thing he has wanted to learn for so long... most times it is always buy me this buy me this and it goes away after a while... or I have bought big ticket items and he never used them or only did until the newness of it wore off. Ugg this is a tough spot to be in... because I see the light at the end of the tunnel and I want to make sure it is not my imangination.. but a real train coming down on me.. (if that makes sense to you .. bonus!!) [/QUOTE]
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