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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 235832" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>You know, on the request for a hearing to order FAPT under a chins a couple of weeks ago, the judge or her personal clerk wrote "court can't order fapt; talk to CSA or DSS". Now I know this judge knows that Department of Juvenile Justice can get FAPT. But, I wonder...this judge also ordered difficult child to a detention program last June that he would never qualify for because of his age. Everyone here, even po, said they KNEW that the judge was aware that difficult child was too young for it. Ultimately judge let difficult child out of detention with a suspended sentence. </p><p></p><p>Given that when I testified last Jan about the mst, difficult child's issues, my therpay as a young 20+yo, my family's abuse, where I wanted difficult child to live if something happened to me (not family) etc., and by the end of the hearing I honestly believe she was on my side and I know she took notes on the computer, I wondered at difficult child's last hearing if she intentionally ordered that program so she could justify letting him go home after 30 days. </p><p></p><p>Now, I wonder if she wrote what she did and refused that request for a hearing in order to keep this out of the courts. I wonder if I should just apply again asking for removal from probation, so I can access help through DSS.</p><p></p><p>Am I over-thinking this? Would she bother looking up her notes on her computer?</p><p></p><p>I also told testified, while being questioned by the GAL that GAL had not opened any doors to accessing additional help for difficult child, as she was assigned specificly to do. And, that if the day ever came where I could not meet all difficult child's needs, I would have hoped that I could meet with GAL and discuss what is in difficult child's best interest, but given how gal and everyone else had been more interested in making rash decisions, then getting them ordered by the judge, then forcing them down my throat, rather than discuss anything with me about my son's best interest, I probably would never take that approach. I told them I would probably die rather than ask for help from them again. </p><p></p><p>Yes I said that- in court.</p><p></p><p>Oh- by the way- she started out as a school teacher, FWIW. And she's into writing/English/grammar.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 235832, member: 3699"] You know, on the request for a hearing to order FAPT under a chins a couple of weeks ago, the judge or her personal clerk wrote "court can't order fapt; talk to CSA or DSS". Now I know this judge knows that Department of Juvenile Justice can get FAPT. But, I wonder...this judge also ordered difficult child to a detention program last June that he would never qualify for because of his age. Everyone here, even po, said they KNEW that the judge was aware that difficult child was too young for it. Ultimately judge let difficult child out of detention with a suspended sentence. Given that when I testified last Jan about the mst, difficult child's issues, my therpay as a young 20+yo, my family's abuse, where I wanted difficult child to live if something happened to me (not family) etc., and by the end of the hearing I honestly believe she was on my side and I know she took notes on the computer, I wondered at difficult child's last hearing if she intentionally ordered that program so she could justify letting him go home after 30 days. Now, I wonder if she wrote what she did and refused that request for a hearing in order to keep this out of the courts. I wonder if I should just apply again asking for removal from probation, so I can access help through DSS. Am I over-thinking this? Would she bother looking up her notes on her computer? I also told testified, while being questioned by the GAL that GAL had not opened any doors to accessing additional help for difficult child, as she was assigned specificly to do. And, that if the day ever came where I could not meet all difficult child's needs, I would have hoped that I could meet with GAL and discuss what is in difficult child's best interest, but given how gal and everyone else had been more interested in making rash decisions, then getting them ordered by the judge, then forcing them down my throat, rather than discuss anything with me about my son's best interest, I probably would never take that approach. I told them I would probably die rather than ask for help from them again. Yes I said that- in court. Oh- by the way- she started out as a school teacher, FWIW. And she's into writing/English/grammar. [/QUOTE]
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