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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 525403" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Thanks guys. Tony and I are both what Dr Phil would call "right fighters" and we both know exactly which buttons are the ones to push which will cut the deepest. I read Relationship Rescue and this was long before we had all these problems. I have long tried that marriage Hero thing and he just thought I was strange for awhile. LOL. Oh...you are suddenly getting up with me to give me a hug and a kiss before work? Well thats nice honey! Never made a difference in his attitude towards me if I wanted to spend time with him any other time. I have always wanted tony to be my friend. I want to be around him. He has other friends and doesnt want to spend much time with me. It leaves me feeling lost because he is gone so much and I am alone so much, especially since I became disabled. I hardly leave my house and his answer is that he gives me permission to go wherever I want to go. Oh gee, thanks. I cant go anywhere and I have no where to go anyway. His one suggestion was knitting club or bingo. We dont have either here and I dont knit. </p><p></p><p>Anyway...I have this tingling feeling that something is going on inside me that isnt good. My breathing is labored when I walk much. I am hoping this will get better with me stopping smoking next month if I can. No guarantee there though. Like I said, this may be too late. Im not planning on running to a doctor about it either because I simply cant handle another problem. Especially one I know will be invasive. I may get a chest xray but thats about it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 525403, member: 1514"] Thanks guys. Tony and I are both what Dr Phil would call "right fighters" and we both know exactly which buttons are the ones to push which will cut the deepest. I read Relationship Rescue and this was long before we had all these problems. I have long tried that marriage Hero thing and he just thought I was strange for awhile. LOL. Oh...you are suddenly getting up with me to give me a hug and a kiss before work? Well thats nice honey! Never made a difference in his attitude towards me if I wanted to spend time with him any other time. I have always wanted tony to be my friend. I want to be around him. He has other friends and doesnt want to spend much time with me. It leaves me feeling lost because he is gone so much and I am alone so much, especially since I became disabled. I hardly leave my house and his answer is that he gives me permission to go wherever I want to go. Oh gee, thanks. I cant go anywhere and I have no where to go anyway. His one suggestion was knitting club or bingo. We dont have either here and I dont knit. Anyway...I have this tingling feeling that something is going on inside me that isnt good. My breathing is labored when I walk much. I am hoping this will get better with me stopping smoking next month if I can. No guarantee there though. Like I said, this may be too late. Im not planning on running to a doctor about it either because I simply cant handle another problem. Especially one I know will be invasive. I may get a chest xray but thats about it. [/QUOTE]
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