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<blockquote data-quote="Calamity Jane" data-source="post: 525465" data-attributes="member: 13882"><p>FWIW, I'm with Insane on this. I know Tony was cruel making that crack about you have to die of something. There's no call for that, but if that was his nature all along, you wouldn't be with Tony all these years.</p><p>Yes, he's insensitive, and yes, Buck is a jerk. But no man wants to feel like his woman thinks he's also a jerk for bringing the jerk home! On some level Tony probably thinks you think less of him, so why should he knock himself out at work all day, and in his opinion, deal with Cory? Then he has to come home to a not so pleasant environment esp. after Buck keeps trying to drive a wedge between you two every single day. Don't make it easy for Buck to win!</p><p>I'd get back at Buck by being oh so loving to Tony. Make his favorite meal, really show an effort to cater to him. Bake him a cake or just figure out some tangible way to show him you want to have peace. Consistently do that, and Tony will be protective of you and suspicious of Buck's motives. Don't say a bad word about Buck anymore, though...Tony just hears that as criticism directed toward him, not Buck.</p><p>If it's not too humiliating, tell Tony you really wish he wouldn't sleep in Keyana's room - tell him you can't sleep well without him there. Something else Dr. Phil says, "Would you rather be right, or would you rather be happy?"</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Calamity Jane, post: 525465, member: 13882"] FWIW, I'm with Insane on this. I know Tony was cruel making that crack about you have to die of something. There's no call for that, but if that was his nature all along, you wouldn't be with Tony all these years. Yes, he's insensitive, and yes, Buck is a jerk. But no man wants to feel like his woman thinks he's also a jerk for bringing the jerk home! On some level Tony probably thinks you think less of him, so why should he knock himself out at work all day, and in his opinion, deal with Cory? Then he has to come home to a not so pleasant environment esp. after Buck keeps trying to drive a wedge between you two every single day. Don't make it easy for Buck to win! I'd get back at Buck by being oh so loving to Tony. Make his favorite meal, really show an effort to cater to him. Bake him a cake or just figure out some tangible way to show him you want to have peace. Consistently do that, and Tony will be protective of you and suspicious of Buck's motives. Don't say a bad word about Buck anymore, though...Tony just hears that as criticism directed toward him, not Buck. If it's not too humiliating, tell Tony you really wish he wouldn't sleep in Keyana's room - tell him you can't sleep well without him there. Something else Dr. Phil says, "Would you rather be right, or would you rather be happy?" [/QUOTE]
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