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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 379221" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>i'm sorry you had to go thru that, you showed great restraint by the way. i dont' think i could of if my little one was being gone after and than he turned on me. i've only been in shoving situations with my difficult child. yet the times she did it i told her next time your hands are on me we are in the truck headed to a hospital. that seemed to work. yet sounds like he goes into full blown tantrum and starts swinging so logic on any level during that won't work, it'll just escalate it.</p><p> </p><p>i wouldn't wipe in under the table at all though. i know you fear him blowing again yet that's him controlling your house also. if i were you i'd sit down with-your husband and him tonight. you say your husband doesn't want to deal with-difficult child. he has no choice can't just be you. i'm sure difficult child also senses that, sux but they do. when i get to that point with-mine and i detach she comes after me more. reverse effect go figure.......</p><p> </p><p>i'd give him a verbal that the next time his hands are on you in anyway the police will be called, there will be no way around it. i'd also punish him now. take his bike away for a certain amt. of days. yet i wouldn't let it go unaddressed. sounds like you have a pretty good handle on his strengths, weakens and taking the bike will def. upset him and make an impression.</p><p> </p><p>sorry you had to go thru that. your little one must of been nervous also. can the school test him? does he act out there at all? insurance companies lately i'm finding are rough. so are getting evaluations. can you go thru insurance co. bring him to any pyschdr. and they will do an evaluation. at least they do here in n.y. certain pysch won't, they charge cash for evaluation usually the really good ones. </p><p> </p><p>just wondering do you guys do a family nite thing all four of you at all? sounds crazy with what's going on yet i'm just wondering. sometimes when you throw that inbetween coming down hard with-verbal threatening about hands and police it throws them off a bit. good with-bad sort of thing.</p><p> </p><p>sorry my difficult child's bugging me lol.</p><p> </p><p>alot of luck to you!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 379221, member: 4514"] hi i'm sorry you had to go thru that, you showed great restraint by the way. i dont' think i could of if my little one was being gone after and than he turned on me. i've only been in shoving situations with my difficult child. yet the times she did it i told her next time your hands are on me we are in the truck headed to a hospital. that seemed to work. yet sounds like he goes into full blown tantrum and starts swinging so logic on any level during that won't work, it'll just escalate it. i wouldn't wipe in under the table at all though. i know you fear him blowing again yet that's him controlling your house also. if i were you i'd sit down with-your husband and him tonight. you say your husband doesn't want to deal with-difficult child. he has no choice can't just be you. i'm sure difficult child also senses that, sux but they do. when i get to that point with-mine and i detach she comes after me more. reverse effect go figure....... i'd give him a verbal that the next time his hands are on you in anyway the police will be called, there will be no way around it. i'd also punish him now. take his bike away for a certain amt. of days. yet i wouldn't let it go unaddressed. sounds like you have a pretty good handle on his strengths, weakens and taking the bike will def. upset him and make an impression. sorry you had to go thru that. your little one must of been nervous also. can the school test him? does he act out there at all? insurance companies lately i'm finding are rough. so are getting evaluations. can you go thru insurance co. bring him to any pyschdr. and they will do an evaluation. at least they do here in n.y. certain pysch won't, they charge cash for evaluation usually the really good ones. just wondering do you guys do a family nite thing all four of you at all? sounds crazy with what's going on yet i'm just wondering. sometimes when you throw that inbetween coming down hard with-verbal threatening about hands and police it throws them off a bit. good with-bad sort of thing. sorry my difficult child's bugging me lol. alot of luck to you!! [/QUOTE]
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