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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 655707" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>I'm not saying this to be mean, but because I'm not sure anyone else can or will tell you in real life: There's two sides to every story.</p><p> </p><p>Does that make your side of the story wrong? NO! You know what you hear, see, feel, perceive, think. You know what you have done and why you have done it.</p><p> </p><p>But that doesn't mean that your side of the story is the whole story, or that you have the whole picture. There is another side.</p><p> </p><p>Have you ever found a really good therapist and actually dealt with your past? Or did you just lock your past away inside you and "move on"? If you just moved on... then in reality you haven't moved on at all, because it doesn't work that way. I was there once. It took significant therapy to get healing, so I could <em>really</em> move on, and not be carrying it with me, locked inside, affecting everything I did and thought. I know people who needed therapy and refused, and are still hung up on the past (even though they refuse to think or talk about it). I know others who have done the work and released themselves from an internal prison, and are new people.</p><p> </p><p>Are you and your wife still together? I'm guessing yes. What does she think? Have you told her you aren't coping well with the current situation? Does she - can she - give you any feedback on the other side of the story? Does she support the use of therapists? </p><p> </p><p>There's just so many things we don't know about your situation. But I suspect that if you can get help <em>for yourself</em>, it will affect others in a positive way, and even if it doesn't you will come out ahead.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 655707, member: 11791"] I'm not saying this to be mean, but because I'm not sure anyone else can or will tell you in real life: There's two sides to every story. Does that make your side of the story wrong? NO! You know what you hear, see, feel, perceive, think. You know what you have done and why you have done it. But that doesn't mean that your side of the story is the whole story, or that you have the whole picture. There is another side. Have you ever found a really good therapist and actually dealt with your past? Or did you just lock your past away inside you and "move on"? If you just moved on... then in reality you haven't moved on at all, because it doesn't work that way. I was there once. It took significant therapy to get healing, so I could [I]really[/I] move on, and not be carrying it with me, locked inside, affecting everything I did and thought. I know people who needed therapy and refused, and are still hung up on the past (even though they refuse to think or talk about it). I know others who have done the work and released themselves from an internal prison, and are new people. Are you and your wife still together? I'm guessing yes. What does she think? Have you told her you aren't coping well with the current situation? Does she - can she - give you any feedback on the other side of the story? Does she support the use of therapists? There's just so many things we don't know about your situation. But I suspect that if you can get help [I]for yourself[/I], it will affect others in a positive way, and even if it doesn't you will come out ahead. [/QUOTE]
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