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Living with Tennage Daughter diagnosis with Borderline (BPD)
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 527463" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I have borderline, but it is under good control thanks to years of my trying really hard in therapy, self-help groups, and a psychiatrist. There is a new treatment for borderline that I think rocks the boat and is better than anything out there, and it has promising results. I will both send you a link to dialectal behavioral therapy (which was first established specifically for borderline) and a book for those who have to live with borderlines. Wow, calling the guy who doesn't like her over and over again sure rings familiar. You get so angry that you keep...well, I don't have to tell you. I'm so glad I'm not that person anymore! Cognitive and dialectal behavioral therapy changed my life. I was going nowhere fast in regular talk therapy. medications helped my moodswings, but did not change my personality disorder. Ok, here are the links and hope this is helpful. You may have to call around to find a dialectal behavioral therapist because it's relatively new, but keep trying. And if you can't find one, next best is a cognitive behavioral therapist.</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Stop-Walking-Eggshells-Borderline-Personality/dp/1572246901" target="_blank">http://www.amazon.com/Stop-Walking-Eggshells-Borderline-Personality/dp/1572246901</a></p><p></p><p>Many hugs and love and good thoughts and may your daughter be a person who truly wants to get better because borderline, once thought untreatable, is actually VERY treatable now, but the borderline has to be willing to put forth a good effort! If necessary, show her this post...she can see that somebody else had it/still has it/but lives a normal life now without the drama and frightening rage attacks that used to probably scare me as much as the other person. If she would like to talk to me, PM me and I'll be happy to tell her what I was like at her age and how much happier and even content that she can be. Borderline interfers with relationships and I lost many dear people due to this disorder. With time, I have been able to mend many of them and I am actually basically a happy person now without all the minute-by-minute mood swings that drove me and everyone else up a wall! It was not possible, however,f or me to learn to regulate my moods without this wonderful help. I did try! I *did!*</p><p>Ah, I love peace! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 527463, member: 1550"] I have borderline, but it is under good control thanks to years of my trying really hard in therapy, self-help groups, and a psychiatrist. There is a new treatment for borderline that I think rocks the boat and is better than anything out there, and it has promising results. I will both send you a link to dialectal behavioral therapy (which was first established specifically for borderline) and a book for those who have to live with borderlines. Wow, calling the guy who doesn't like her over and over again sure rings familiar. You get so angry that you keep...well, I don't have to tell you. I'm so glad I'm not that person anymore! Cognitive and dialectal behavioral therapy changed my life. I was going nowhere fast in regular talk therapy. medications helped my moodswings, but did not change my personality disorder. Ok, here are the links and hope this is helpful. You may have to call around to find a dialectal behavioral therapist because it's relatively new, but keep trying. And if you can't find one, next best is a cognitive behavioral therapist. [url]http://www.amazon.com/Stop-Walking-Eggshells-Borderline-Personality/dp/1572246901[/url] Many hugs and love and good thoughts and may your daughter be a person who truly wants to get better because borderline, once thought untreatable, is actually VERY treatable now, but the borderline has to be willing to put forth a good effort! If necessary, show her this post...she can see that somebody else had it/still has it/but lives a normal life now without the drama and frightening rage attacks that used to probably scare me as much as the other person. If she would like to talk to me, PM me and I'll be happy to tell her what I was like at her age and how much happier and even content that she can be. Borderline interfers with relationships and I lost many dear people due to this disorder. With time, I have been able to mend many of them and I am actually basically a happy person now without all the minute-by-minute mood swings that drove me and everyone else up a wall! It was not possible, however,f or me to learn to regulate my moods without this wonderful help. I did try! I *did!* Ah, I love peace! :) [/QUOTE]
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