Longing for some normality in life..

[nandz]

I know there is no such thing as "normal", but I guess I am just longing for just ONE day of knowing what its like to have a "typical" kid who doesn't rage, melt down, run around like crazy, not listen, or be defiant....maybe I am feeling sorry for myself right now, but sometimes you just need to wallow in self pity to feel better at times. SIGH..thanks for listening.

 

[BusynMember]

Well...I know it's hard. Do you know what the problem is with your kiddo? Do you have a diagnosis? That could help us give some suggestions. Have you read The Explosive Child? That's very helpful in my opinion.

 

[HaoZi]

Most parents of teens I know would consider a day like that pretty normal. You're not alone, if that helps.

 

[Wiped Out]

I can totally relate. Hugs.

 

[Bunny]

I can relate too. difficult child starts his raging, demaning tantrums and I think to myself, "Can't we go just one day without this **** going on?" I understand. I hope that today is a better day.

Pam

 

[Farmwife]

I always thought that "normal" would freak me out anyway so why bother. I am so used to chaos that a quiet day gives me anxiety now, just don't know what to do or expect. *sigh* Kind of tragic and funny all at the same time.

I would be afraid of a "normal" quiet teen. I would watch them as if they were some psychotic volcanoe just ready to blow any minute. lol

I need a nap. A long, alcohol induced nap on a beach. (a beach in a country that has outlawed teens)

 

[gcvmom]

Pity parties are a necessary part of raising a difficult child. You go ahead and let those feelings out. It's the only way you'll find the strength to soldier on.

(((Hugs)))