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<blockquote data-quote="dashcat" data-source="post: 392565" data-attributes="member: 9175"><p>Confronting doesn't work here, either. Never has. Why I keep revisiting this accountability concept, I'll never know! Maybe it's partially because she is SOOO good - she fools everyone ... some for a very long time. I guess I want her to know I'm not fooled but ... why? It serves no purpose other than to make her a better liar and me a crazy person! She's lost the use of my car for anything other than if I need her to run an errand or, ocassionally, for work for lying about what she was using it for. </p><p> </p><p>I think you're both right. It's ostrich time! Best to save my energy enforcing the boundaries I can control.</p><p> </p><p>As to the sexuality, I just pray. And drink wine. And pray some more...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dashcat, post: 392565, member: 9175"] Confronting doesn't work here, either. Never has. Why I keep revisiting this accountability concept, I'll never know! Maybe it's partially because she is SOOO good - she fools everyone ... some for a very long time. I guess I want her to know I'm not fooled but ... why? It serves no purpose other than to make her a better liar and me a crazy person! She's lost the use of my car for anything other than if I need her to run an errand or, ocassionally, for work for lying about what she was using it for. I think you're both right. It's ostrich time! Best to save my energy enforcing the boundaries I can control. As to the sexuality, I just pray. And drink wine. And pray some more... [/QUOTE]
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