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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 281203" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>I have dropped into conversation that the prosecutor could nail him if several of us came at once to prosecute. So far, not bites. I am still hoping.</p><p></p><p>My sister is living with her mother. She's a wingnut. She believes her older daughter "WANTED" my father, Came On to my father, then when rejected, made false allegations. She even contacted me at the bidding of the child protection worker, and I told her ALL. She acted like she believed, but you can tell she doesn't. I don't know why,but child protection worker said its been months since my sis saw our father, but nothing can be done if visits resume, without charges laid. Gosh I hope that doesn't happen. My sisters mother is not all there. THe call made it aparent. I kept it low key because this womans family is all from my town and she has offered to allow me to visit my sister next time they travel here to visit family. I sure hope she actually comes through. I'll have to hold in a flood of tears to hug my sister for the first time. I've prayed for her for 11 years, I never thought she'd know who I was, I figured I"d never get to know her. </p><p></p><p>My sis was pulled into foster care when her older sister made the criminal charge against my father. Then my father eventually moved out and she was moved back to her mother. I think there's more to the story since child protection has not closed the file and is deeply involved with the family. This worker wants my fathers butt on a roasting stick. She wants my sister in a proper healthy environment. It's obvious even alone with the mother, there are problems. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> </p><p>I am in Canada, so we have provinces. We are in same province. About a 3 hour drive apart. I'd have no problem, with the workers support, becoming her foster placement if she's taken into care again. She seems so excited to be getting to know me. In our phone call, she was practically vibrating with excitment. She said she'd viewed all of my facebook photo albums and told me she thought we looked like an awesome and happy family and she was kinda jealous that my easy child (only a year younger than my sister) gets to do so much stuff (hockey, parties, soccer, theater camp etc). She said she wished she lived closer so she could spend weekends and stuff. Thats a good sign if she was placed in foster care, that she might be comfortable being placed with me.</p><p>I think there might have been another foster placement as well following a domestic violence issue where my father was drunk, per usual, and physically attacked my sisters mother.</p><p></p><p>Something I forgot to post originally. I learned my brother, my only sibling, has secretly maintained a deep relationship with my brother. I saw him last week for the first time since learning this and had the awkward painful job of telling him that he is no longer welcome in me or my children's lives. I simply can't stomache having a relationship with a brother who knows all of this but would have a relationship with this monster.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 281203, member: 4264"] I have dropped into conversation that the prosecutor could nail him if several of us came at once to prosecute. So far, not bites. I am still hoping. My sister is living with her mother. She's a wingnut. She believes her older daughter "WANTED" my father, Came On to my father, then when rejected, made false allegations. She even contacted me at the bidding of the child protection worker, and I told her ALL. She acted like she believed, but you can tell she doesn't. I don't know why,but child protection worker said its been months since my sis saw our father, but nothing can be done if visits resume, without charges laid. Gosh I hope that doesn't happen. My sisters mother is not all there. THe call made it aparent. I kept it low key because this womans family is all from my town and she has offered to allow me to visit my sister next time they travel here to visit family. I sure hope she actually comes through. I'll have to hold in a flood of tears to hug my sister for the first time. I've prayed for her for 11 years, I never thought she'd know who I was, I figured I"d never get to know her. My sis was pulled into foster care when her older sister made the criminal charge against my father. Then my father eventually moved out and she was moved back to her mother. I think there's more to the story since child protection has not closed the file and is deeply involved with the family. This worker wants my fathers butt on a roasting stick. She wants my sister in a proper healthy environment. It's obvious even alone with the mother, there are problems. :( :( I am in Canada, so we have provinces. We are in same province. About a 3 hour drive apart. I'd have no problem, with the workers support, becoming her foster placement if she's taken into care again. She seems so excited to be getting to know me. In our phone call, she was practically vibrating with excitment. She said she'd viewed all of my facebook photo albums and told me she thought we looked like an awesome and happy family and she was kinda jealous that my easy child (only a year younger than my sister) gets to do so much stuff (hockey, parties, soccer, theater camp etc). She said she wished she lived closer so she could spend weekends and stuff. Thats a good sign if she was placed in foster care, that she might be comfortable being placed with me. I think there might have been another foster placement as well following a domestic violence issue where my father was drunk, per usual, and physically attacked my sisters mother. Something I forgot to post originally. I learned my brother, my only sibling, has secretly maintained a deep relationship with my brother. I saw him last week for the first time since learning this and had the awkward painful job of telling him that he is no longer welcome in me or my children's lives. I simply can't stomache having a relationship with a brother who knows all of this but would have a relationship with this monster. [/QUOTE]
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